"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Beta males won: How violence is responsible for evolution of modern humans | Richard Wrangham

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This is why humans now dominate the planet while all other primate species are on the verge of extinction.

Having one alpha beat every other male up is not productive for a functioning society, humans working together is what allowed us to advanced so far.

You see some Alpha going around beating every other male up, of course the betas are going to team up and beat the alpha to death. Why would they tolerate the "Alphas" anti social behaviour.
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Reminder that being anti social is not an alpha trait. Again, barbaric behaviors is being misunderstood as alpha.
 
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