"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Best workout(s) for back muscles to improve posture?

lolwut

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I'm naturally a bit hunched over, what are some good back exercises for posture improvement?

preferably something that doesn't strain the spine as much as deadlifts.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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Proper deadlifts should be of no risk to the spine. If you're arching your back or feeling too much pressure on your spine and lower back, you have too much weight on the bar. 99% of the time, this means your core muscles are weak and can't support the weight/pressure needed to hold proper form, so they are forced to rely on the skeletal structure to support itself, which is the right way for a bad injury. I always get my clients to strengthen their cores and abdominal muscles before I put them on a deadlift routine.
 

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Forgot to add:

In terms of posture, you want exercises that will bring the shoulder blades back and together. (various rows, for example) Bring your belly button towards your spine with a solid ab routine and pull the shoulders back by adding some muscle fibers up there, and you'll naturally have good posture. When those areas are weak, you will slouch.

Targeting the erector spinae with goodmornings, bent over rows and hyper-extensions will do a world of wonders, too.
 

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If you aren't willing to give the deadlift an honest go then you aren't going to get very far in this game.

Everyone should be able to get to 315 at a bare minimum on it.

Get up to 405 and then tell me you still have back problems.

Also, specifically for posture hyperextensions and shrugging movements are good.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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