"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Best Ways to cut weight advice and experience

coolguy676767

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I am a rather large guy, I am 5'11, 240 pounds, I have already cut about 7 pounds, but would like to get down to 220 or so then see how I look, I am not that fat actually, I sound like i should weigh about 180 at my height, but I have a very wide build and a large chest, with big legs, that combination I would say puts my optimum ripped weight around 200 or so, but 220 would make me happy for now, I have no problem with strength or building muscle, I am 17 and bench 310, but want to cut weight as quickly as possible, while still gaining strength for football and for the weightlifting team of competitive lifting. Any advice/experience/ideas/techniques are all very appreciated.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AgonyUncle

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Stick to a solid weight routine. Add some HIT cardio, and clean up your diet.

Your best bet is to sort out your diet first. Get protein, eat low GI carbs, and supplement well.

What is your diet like at the moment? And how frequently do you train?
 

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I work out 5 times a week, bench and arms in one day 2 times a week, cleans and legs in same day 2 times a week, and shoulders and back once a week, for 2 hours a day, I am on the varsity high school weightlifting so I train very heavily, my strength is plenty high enough, benching around 315 legal max, but I am trying to get a 400 bench by next year at my age its possible, but my diet could be better, I have cut a lot of food, I eat better but not perfect, been eating very little lately in last 2 weeks, in order to cut 5 pounds for the next meet, which is 10 pounds total, but like I said I want to lose 15 or so more.
 

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You overtraining. Anything more than an hour on the weights is actually counter productive. Its not a case of more is better. Quality over quantity.

Train your body one part a week. Put some cardio into it.
 
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