Best way to respond to an apology after flaking?

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

I'd pull the same card: wait 3 days, then 'k' her

 

[BrainDamage92]

Nah man silence is what you think would work but as you know a woman has thousands of options for no effort at all. Silence is what works when you already slept or had a relationship with the girl, because shes afraid of losing a valuable asset. Your are not even an asset atm. Silence wont work. Getting angry doesnt work aswell for the same reason. "Fuk this *****" is plain stupid why lose an option?

Again, get it in your head, dont be offended by female BS, its exactly what their pourpose is, to see that they can affect you emotionally, which makes them feel powerful, because modern times teach that sexes are equal, although they are clearly physically weaker, so that they get complexed and need to prove their strenght with mind games and such. But in the end all they want is a dude who faces all the **** life throws at him with a smile on his face not despite, but because all of it. Someone who knows the meaning of Cest la vie you see. Im not alpha or anything, nor a don juan, but I aint no keyboard jockey either. On the flirting level I got this **** figured out, its leftover twisted morals that hurdle me... anyway...

I would go like:

"Oh what a pleasant surprise, youre such a good girl, why are you appologising, if I remember correctly I was the one who tried to reschedule at the last minute? I thought you were offended so I didnt want to bother you any further"

*oh hes so sweet blah blah* (if she wasnt feeling guilty she would be by now)

"On the other hand I like the idea of you feeling guilty about it. Why dont you make me an offer I cant refuse so we can feel guilty together?"

take responsibility, even when you dont need to, even when its not your fault, take responsibility, and dont GET OFFENDED by anything a girly does. Dont talk little, talk alot say nothing, reveal nothing, confuse and hypnotise them with a low voice.

and also, dont make wasted efforts to make offers, women are always the one with the offer when it comes to sex, couse I believe you want something more than drinks. If she has trouble, set the date yourself tho.

The trick is to appear as nice and soft and nice and soft as possible, but, she knows damn well an ole dirty bastard who will fuk her like a champion is below the mask

This is why this MGTOW BS is parasitic - hold doors, carry heavy loads, open jars, flirt with every girl, be a gentleman, the part that people forget which makes them AFC is being a sleazy fuker. Its part of being a gent and a nice guy. I dont see anything wrong with it.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Nah man silence is what you think would work but as you know a woman has thousands of options for no effort at all. Silence is what works when you already slept or had a relationship with the girl, because shes afraid of losing a valuable asset. Your are not even an asset atm. Silence wont work. Getting angry doesnt work aswell for the same reason. "Fuk this *****" is plain stupid why lose an option?

Again, get it in your head, dont be offended by female BS, its exactly what their pourpose is, to see that they can affect you emotionally, which makes them feel powerful, because modern times teach that sexes are equal, although they are clearly physically weaker, so that they get complexed and need to prove their strenght with mind games and such. But in the end all they want is a dude who faces all the **** life throws at him with a smile on his face not despite, but because all of it. Someone who knows the meaning of Cest la vie you see. Im not alpha or anything, nor a don juan, but I aint no keyboard jockey either. On the flirting level I got this **** figured out, its leftover twisted morals that hurdle me... anyway...

I would go like:

"Oh what a pleasant surprise, youre such a good girl, why are you appologising, if I remember correctly I was the one who tried to reschedule at the last minute? I thought you were offended so I didnt want to bother you any further"

*oh hes so sweet blah blah* (if she wasnt feeling guilty she would be by now)

"On the other hand I like the idea of you feeling guilty about it. Why dont you make me an offer I cant refuse so we can feel guilty together?"

take responsibility, even when you dont need to, even when its not your fault, take responsibility, and dont GET OFFENDED by anything a girly does. Dont talk little, talk alot say nothing, reveal nothing, confuse and hypnotise them with a low voice.

and also, dont make wasted efforts to make offers, women are always the one with the offer when it comes to sex, couse I believe you want something more than drinks. If she has trouble, set the date yourself tho.

The trick is to appear as nice and soft and nice and soft as possible, but, she knows damn well an ole dirty bastard who will fuk her like a champion is below the mask

This is why this MGTOW BS is parasitic - hold doors, carry heavy loads, open jars, flirt with every girl, be a gentleman, the part that people forget which makes them AFC is being a sleazy fuker. Its part of being a gent and a nice guy. I dont see anything wrong with it.

Im sure you have your reason to give this suggestion, but I believe its all wrong already in the mental frame, even more in the execution.

Whats gonna happen if he writes one of those elaborated long lines you suggest is that she will get an ego boost seeing how even after a flake it only takes a random apology to get him back working and thinking about her.

Whats gonna happen is that if he sends that message you suggest and then she no longer replies and the poor bastard is gonna be p1ssed off even more...think of a guy which a crappy hand in poker with double the bet cause he doesnt wanna lose the few coins he already put in only to lose much more.

 

[lao che]

to be fair, my girl wasn't a flake. she left the city without saying goodbye, and without ****ing me. i called her a bad friend, which sounds like a terrible line out of context, but was relevent in a dryly humourous way.
she apologized and i was just gonna ignore forever, or at least until she contacted me again, so probably never.
then i decided to send "i'm sure you'll think of a way to make it up to me"

it's much better than flat out silence for a number of reasons. and "wait three days then k" looks like exactly what it is - immature, gamey and butthurt



BTW i'm not claiming credit for this. it sounds very krauser-ish