I'm at the gym almost everyday during my lunch break and there is a fine girl that comes in at the same time. The problem is that her and I use different machines. Also, she comes in with her headphones. So I look at her from a distance and sometimes catch her looking at me from afar, but never long or close enough for me to get a smile in there. What would you do?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Best way to pickup at gym?
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A lot of times girls who are interested will take the headphones off so that you'll approach, especially after you've traded some solid eye contact; not quick glances. The other method would be to just walk over and signal for her to take them off. You could use a spontaneous c/f opener that should get the job done well for you. Just keep your eyes open for opportunities and you'll come up with something. Just make sure you don't wait too long. Approach her next time you see her, but do it between sets or at the end of her workout. It's better not to interrupt workouts.
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Well man, my style would be to stretch my hands in a waving motion (the way those guys at the airplanes do to make signs to airplanes) to get her attention, and say hi with the hand.
Since she has allready seen you (she has), you try to look happier than you usually do, to mask the fact that you didnt have the balls to approach her in whatever way. Haha sounded harsh, sorry
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Since she has allready seen you (she has), you try to look happier than you usually do, to mask the fact that you didnt have the balls to approach her in whatever way. Haha sounded harsh, sorry
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