"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Best Way To Handle This

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Stealing your friends potential females is a good way to make the bestest of friends with him dont ya think?
 

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Since you want to fvck over buddy anywho......

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1) I could just wait and if I'm still single when they break up, ask her out then.

2) I could confront my friend and just ask him not to ask her out.

3) I could just ask her to go out with me a couple of times discreetly, so she could see which of us she actually likes better. The other guy is no threat to me, in my opinion.
1. Yeah..ok...no. Rarely happens like that.
2. That's a gay move to make, he'll be super pissed at you for stealing her.
3. Best option. She makes the choice, you just happen to be a choice, and it still gives your buddy the best chance.

I still think you're a douche for thinking of it, my buddy stole two girls from me (and she's his fiance now), but when I think of it, girls come and go, there's always another. :)
 
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