"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Best Way To Handle This

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stealing your friends potential females is a good way to make the bestest of friends with him dont ya think?
 

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Since you want to fvck over buddy anywho......

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1) I could just wait and if I'm still single when they break up, ask her out then.

2) I could confront my friend and just ask him not to ask her out.

3) I could just ask her to go out with me a couple of times discreetly, so she could see which of us she actually likes better. The other guy is no threat to me, in my opinion.
1. Yeah..ok...no. Rarely happens like that.
2. That's a gay move to make, he'll be super pissed at you for stealing her.
3. Best option. She makes the choice, you just happen to be a choice, and it still gives your buddy the best chance.

I still think you're a douche for thinking of it, my buddy stole two girls from me (and she's his fiance now), but when I think of it, girls come and go, there's always another. :)
 
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