"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This happened a couple of years ago at my school but I always wondered what I could have said. I was with my friends on this particular day and I don't quite remember how the comment came about but she (a friend as well) said that I "couldn't do anything but play video games" with her son. Needless to say this particular interaction didn't go well seeing that I didn't have a good comeback. She even said it twice. Now she never gave me any indication that she had a thing for me or anything like that but the comment did seem sexual in nature. I think she was trying to give me a way in but after that she didn't say anything like that to me again. For the experts out there (just the experts), what would you have said to her to make the interaction more "interesting"? And also what do you to women who try to "challenge" you in ways like this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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S. Pryor said:
This happened a couple of years ago at my school but I always wondered what I could have said. I was with my friends on this particular day and I don't quite remember how the comment came about but she (a friend as well) said that I "couldn't do anything but play video games" with her son. Needless to say this particular interaction didn't go well seeing that I didn't have a good comeback. She even said it twice. Now she never gave me any indication that she had a thing for me or anything like that but the comment did seem sexual in nature. I think she was trying to give me a way in but after that she didn't say anything like that to me again. For the experts out there (just the experts), what would you have said to her to make the interaction more "interesting"? And also what do you to women who try to "challenge" you in ways like this?
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In this situation you need to learn to be witty and by this I mean you need to listen to what the person says, give it a moment to register in your head and then sift through the statement the person made in order to find key words and their meanings and implications (all this is done fairly quickly in your mind, with practice it becomes second nature cos obviously if you wait too long to respond , it loses its effect).

This will allow you to prepare a good comeback that isn't a turnoff to the woman i.e not too rude or off putting.You also need to learn to just throw statements out there and not look at the persons face in anticipation afterwards for a laugh or a response.

This is called indifference i.e you just let the statement hang in the air and you don't try and guide it anywhere by giving logical explanations after sayin it (especially if the chick fakes that she is outraged at your comment) . If there is still silence after a certain time period then you just start a new conversational thread or build upon what you have said without sounding eager to please (get validation from) the other person.



I think it depends on what her statement meant. It might have meant that she was teasing you that you were too chicken to try anything else and she wanted you to verbalise that you weren't in a ladiesman-like manner OR it could have meant that she was teasing you that you would not get to bang her, if you came to her place. Only you and her know what she meant. The following could have been applied to the situation depending on what she meant by her statement/neg ;


In this case I would probably say

'' and who said I wanted to do more'' (said with a sly smile in a teasing way i.e drag your words seductively)


OR

'' wow your already imagining far ahead about me and you having a future together, thats very touching or (I feel like a piece of meat being hunted down) ''


OR

'' You sure about that, you might end up all flustered and surprised you know?'' (said with a smirk on your face or a cheeky grin)

OR

''you''ll be surprised at how much more I could DO''

OR

''Don't let me prove you wrong sweet cheeks , you do look kind of delicious you know so don't tempt me ''

OR

'' Are you trying to tempt me? be careful what you wish for, you might : end up all hot and bothered/not be able to handle me''
 
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