"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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best way to get to go down on you

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ive asked plenty of times, ahes replied "ill do it when i feel like it" not that she doesnt do it but its very rare. ive even tried to pull he head down while in the moment nad that doesnt seem to work. even going down on her hoping shed return the favor and yet nothing! she usually just does it hen shes on her rag.

so anything i could try to get her to do it more??
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Stop eating her out. Stop asking for a BJ. Tell her to suck your d!ck. Be more dominate. I don't really know what kind of advice to give. I don't have any problems getting head from my gf. Might just be your girl or you need to train her more! Maybe your asking too much for head and you come off as needy. Which, would give her power over when she sucks you off. Next time when your about to have sex. Pull out your d!ck and TELL her to get on her knees. Speak clearly and confident.
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Stop eating her out. Stop asking for a BJ. Tell her to suck your d!ck. Be more dominate. I don't really know what kind of advice to give. I don't have any problems getting head from my gf. Might just be your girl or you need to train her more! Maybe your asking too much for head and you come off as needy. Which, would give her power over when she sucks you off. Next time when your about to have sex. Pull out your d!ck and TELL her to get on her knees. Speak clearly and confident.

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This really is the way to do it. It's counterintuitive, but true. With ANY sex act.

Saying, "Open your mouth" and just "demanding" it usually works, if you are f*cking her well.

(Don't physically force her, though.)

I'll agree........... confidence, and less "asking" and more "telling", works.


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i do tell her, it usually comes to me when i least expect it or like i said earlier when shes on her rag

ive been with other girls but its not the same, aside from that shes great in bed and i love hanging out with her, its just that i have my needs and sometimes i end up getting them somewhere else..
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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this problem happened to me before with only 1 girl, we were already naked in bed going at it and i told her to "go down on me". She snapped on me, giving me the exact response you get "i only do it when i feel like it". She was mad at me for telling her to do it.

i just turned the whole situation around on her, pretending to be mad at her. Told her it was fine but then i would only fvck her when i felt like it and told her good night. didn't say another word and 5 min later she was apologizing for the way she reacted to me. Needless to say, another 5 min later she was giving me head :)
 

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drak_ool said:
this problem happened to me before with only 1 girl, we were already naked in bed going at it and i told her to "go down on me". She snapped on me, giving me the exact response you get "i only do it when i feel like it". She was mad at me for telling her to do it.

i just turned the whole situation around on her, pretending to be mad at her. Told her it was fine but then i would only fvck her when i felt like it and told her good night. didn't say another word and 5 min later she was apologizing for the way she reacted to me. Needless to say, another 5 min later she was giving me head :)
lol, that's funny
 
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