"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Best way to End it?

Trident

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Been dating a girl for a few monthes she was very interested at first. Interest has started fading on her part. She says she needs space but when I suggest breaking up she gets upset. Anyways what would be the best way to end it before things get any worse while leaving me the upper hand.

Thanks!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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jophil28

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"She says," I need space.."

The womanspeek translation, " I am not feeling it for you anymore Trident, but while I look for your replacement I want you to stay around so that you can take me out and 'attend' to me and we can pretend that we are still together. I surely do not want you to dump me first either so I will cry when you talk about breaking up..."

Dude, you keep the upper hand in this situation by pre-emptively sticking her in the FZ. That is what she will do to you one hour after she sleeps with your replacement.
 

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I figured as much jophil, but how would you go about ending it to finish with the upper hand?
 

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Trident said:
I figured as much jophil, but how would you go about ending it to finish with the upper hand?
Hey Trident, say this to her as she and you stroll in the mall," You know, xxxxx, I really believe that we could make a great friendship together with no other expectations.." And then you shut up.

When she starts spluttering a weak protest (because you OWN the frame at this point) you say."Hey, there is someplace I have to be in 10 minutes. Talk later."

And you walk away and take the frame with you. That is how you finish it with a woman.

Ya dig ?
 

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Only one thing to add to jophil's post: do what he says just after you bang her brains out one last time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Jitterbug said:
Only one thing to add to jophil's post: do what he says just after you bang her brains out one last time.
What a nice thoughtful goodbye gift to give her, Jitter. Yes, very nice.
Obviously your momma raised you to always think of others.
 
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