"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BEST way to DESTROY your fear of rejection : Attempt kiss close on female relative.

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Hello friends!

Here to share with you a great excersise that will no doubt do as many wonders for yourself as it had done for me!

The basic premise is, rejection is hard for many. (I should know, for thousands of years my people had fought hard for our own nation but only got it 65 years ago.) and so many people seek to avoid the pain, "hide away" if you will. Alas, TIME TO MAN UP. Luckily for me, as a male of African descent I am very rarely rejected but I understand the ratio for rejection on this board is somewhere between 99 percent and TOTAL virginity and so take note of this great tip.

Ok. To beat the fear of rejection one must face their fear. Face the ULTIMATE AWKWARD rejection. How to do this? Easy.

One night, pour your mother or your sister or even better...your grandmother...a nice glass of wine. Sit them down and have a heart to heart, tell them about life, make them laugh, pour more wine and enjoy the night.

Then, as the time grows late the wine has been poured twelvefold, place yourself close to your chosen relative. Then wait a while maybe twenty minutes. Joke, even initiate a small level of kino, to them it shall seem at most only a little weird at this stage.

Then after a few leg strokes, hair moving and pillow hits, slide yourself right up against your chosen relative. Make eye contact, prolong it, lick your lips. (TAKE NOTE: My Nigerian cousin Akono failed to notice his own mother licking her own lips at this stage, unfortunately due to his amazingly perfect ebony tinted full lipped facial aesthetics his mother did not resist and his mind has been forever scarred. Not the goal of this excercise.)

The rest is simple. Move in. With a lock of your relatives hair inbetween your fingers slowly close your eyes, then bring your face close to her own. (TAKE NOTE: Be SLOWER than usual, at first the relative will much more than likely be so shocked by what is happening that they will take longer than usual to compute your action and move to reject you. You do NOT want to kiss them, rejection is the goal, give them ample time to see exactly what is happening.)

The rest does itself. Your relative shall reject you in a way you will never truly witness again in your life. There is nothing that will ever match it. The consequences will be not only permenant, they will also be deep and probably highly soul destroying to some extent for all involved. THIS IS A GOOD THING.

Now, my sister is very young, only ten years of age. Unfortunately she has serious mental issues (due to the nature of her conception, via a slice of pepperoni with a cheese filled crust) and so there is a good chance the results may have been different if she even had any sexual drive at all due to my alarmingly handsome face and trimmed phyisique. But, the theory is still the same and the practice and experience that was the ULTIMATE awkward rejections has given me a titan resolve and resilience towards ANYTHING a mere non-family member female could ever throw my way.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Are you F*****ing mad??


How to lose family and alienate people comes to mind!
 

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Peak - stop feeding the troll
 

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PeakIV said:
Are you F*****ing mad??


How to lose family and alienate people comes to mind!
Feeding a troll. A troll with enough free time on his hands to write that long-azz post.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less
 

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I have not visited this forum in months. This was one of the first posts I saw after logging in.

I'm gonna come here more often.
 

foreverAFC

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this guy is just an angry feminist trolling the forums, thats all
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why are there so many of you unwilling to do what is necessary? I success not an option for you?
 

Eternal_water

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Tried this out on my new born baby sister today, she didn't reject me???
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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