"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Best way to deal with onenitis....

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No amount of logical thinking, keeping yourself busier or trying to get the girl out of your head will work.

There's one way and one way only!!

FIND ANOTHER GIRL YOU LIKE!! Believe it or not, there are girls out there who are just as good, if not better than your current onenitis.

My friend liked this one girl and he thought about her all the time, until he went on vacation and met another girl just as pretty (if not prettier) and nicer than the other one.

Guess what? THe other one doesn't even enter his head anymore.

Right now, I have the same problem with a co-worker I fancy. Nothing is going to ever come out of it, so I should stop thinking about her right?

It is not that easy, but if I can find another girl I like....she would be history from my mind.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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