"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Best way to break up with a girl?

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Trident

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How would you guys break up with a girl but leave her wanting more?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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the whole point of breaking up is because you don't want her....why would u want her wanting you more?

go no contact.

stupid question.
 
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AAAgent said:
the whole point of breaking up is because you don't want her....why would u want her wanting you more?

go no contact.

stupid question.
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Not a stupid question at all, I enjoy her company but I would like to see other girls as well but have no intention of cheating. Therefore I move the relationship into something more casual so I am not considered a cheater... You've never liked a girl but didn't want to have a serious relationship with her?
 
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you said "leave her wanting more" though, which would imply that you want to breakup with her and keep and even increase her desire in you... not sure why you would want to do that except for selfish ego reasons.

lucky for you LJBFing her ("i need to experience more life before i do anything serious") is in my opinion the best way to breakup with a girl... and consequently - it also will leave her attracted to you - the one who got away...

Make no mistake about it - unless you break up with a woman in some really stupid way... you are still "breaking up" with her... which automatically raises her attraction to you.
 
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Trident said:
Not a stupid question at all, I enjoy her company but I would like to see other girls as well but have no intention of cheating. Therefore I move the relationship into something more casual so I am not considered a cheater... You've never liked a girl but didn't want to have a serious relationship with her?
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Tell her that. Done.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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