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It is not, You are actually no different then BPH. I actually caught you once, trying to frame as discriminatory, after i called you out with facts, then you tried to frame me as judging, which i was tired for to call you out again. You both have serious issues with social awareness and perception. I actually found BPHs instagram site and I can honestly tell you he is not real, in fact he is the one who is pretentious
I don’t know if you “caught me,” but you did correct me, and I later replied using “social norms,” as you suggested.

Look, you are engaging in ad hominem fallacies when you cannot argue the points that were made. The issue I raised is that there is a lot of evidence pointing to you that you are mentally investing in an assumption that hasn’t been confirmed. You may have a lot of education, but sadly, nothing to show for it.
 
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If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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I am conflicted about saying this and I'll say it anyway. This is starting to become really funny. Why don't we all just go full send and write a script that sends messages to all our FB friends or teams contacts and sends a dikpik to them with an invite to putput or c0cktails? We're doing this on hard mode!

It's like that song... uh... *Jumps on google* Alan Jackson - "I don't even know your name!" Who's to say that can't happen in real life? Let's try and post the result in another forum!
 

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I don’t know if you “caught me,” but you did correct me, and I later replied using “social norms,” as you suggested.

Look, you are engaging in ad hominem fallacies when you cannot argue the points that were made. The issue I raised is that there is a lot of evidence pointing to you that you are mentally investing in an assumption that hasn’t been confirmed. You may have a lot of education, but sadly, nothing to show for it.
my gut feeling never lies haha, turned out again i was right :)
 

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My Instagram isn't hard to find numb nuts...

Also, again, everybody who disagrees with you must be your enemy. I'm telling you, dude, you're definitely narcissistic...

He is not a narcissist. If he were, he would have a ton of irrational courage to not only ask this woman out but also enough confidence to believe he could end up in her pants.

He does have terrible social skills though. No wonder no one likes him.
 

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He is not a narcissist. If he were, he would have a ton of irrational courage to not only ask this woman out but also enough confidence to believe he could end up in her pants.

He does have terrible social skills though. No wonder no one likes him.
Never said though that he is a narcissist, only that he lacks social awareness and perception, which I was right with. My gut feeling was right
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Im reposting the Update, and the Update is truthful, if it wasnt I wouldnt ask for advice, and asking for advice wouldnt help me at all if it wasnt truthful: Update: Today in class, I was outside talking with a friend and another female classmate joined and talked with me. The girl I wanted to ask out walked in at that moment and only greeted the other girl, I swear she did not greet me on purpose, it was obvious. she is playing games. Then her best friend showed up, and she the same, did not acknowledge me, but it. was so obvious they are doing it deliberately. . After that, I didn’t feel comfortable asking her out, it didn’t feel right. Now I’m not sure what to do I really don’t like these kinds of mind games and don’t want that kind of tension in class. Why would they build that stupid tension with me?
 

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Im reposting the Update, and the Update is truthful, if it wasnt I wouldnt ask for advice, and asking for advice wouldnt help me at all if it wasnt truthful: Update: Today in class, I was outside talking with a friend and another female classmate joined and talked with me. The girl I wanted to ask out walked in at that moment and only greeted the other girl, I swear she did not greet me on purpose, it was obvious. she is playing games. Then her best friend showed up, and she the same, did not acknowledge me, but it. was so obvious they are doing it deliberately. . After that, I didn’t feel comfortable asking her out, it didn’t feel right. Now I’m not sure what to do I really don’t like these kinds of mind games and don’t want that kind of tension in class. Why would they build that stupid tension with me?
It's not heightened interest or she lost interest. Oneitis alert! Try a different lady, start a study group and try to build leadership skills or start a hobby with some people? Fun activities involve other people enjoying them and some of those other people are women and some of those women are hot and some of those hot women will be available....
 

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It's not heightened interest or she lost interest. Oneitis alert! Try a different lady, start a study group and try to build leadership skills or start a hobby with some people? Fun activities involve other people enjoying them and some of those other people are women and some of those women are hot and some of those hot women will be available....
I did demonstrate leadership skills in the group, that she actually witnessed. I believe she either masks it or whatever is going plays hard to get. I dont know tbh, but I have had that experience a few times and it always turned out them liking and finding me attractive hence where my confidence comes from, it didnt happen for the first time, its a familiar pattern in combination with reading body language
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Cool. Another leadership trait is Bearing. Maintaining composure when experiencing an upset or an unfavorable outcome and bouncing back isn't a bad thing here. So using the experience you gained from this one, maybe there's a different class that could use one as well? A class with other ladies that put this one in bronze medal place or perhaps into fourth?
 

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Cool. Another leadership trait is Bearing. Maintaining composure when experiencing an upset or an unfavorable outcome and bouncing back isn't a bad thing here. So using the experience you gained from this one, maybe there's a different class that could use one as well? A class with other ladies that put this one in bronze medal place or perhaps into fourth?
I edited it, hope you caught the change

and Whether you believe me or not, I genuinely think I have it. It might not come across in this thread, but I've been through things that would break most people things that have literally driven others to take their own lives. I'm not exaggerating, and I stayed calm the whole time in those situations. For now, I'm too exhausted to keep going
 

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If you're too exhausted to keep going, you own that you got yourself there on target fixation with one lady? Nothing wrong with wanting one specifically, but when you go for the one you want and she isn't hot for you or is giving weird 'signals' that IS your signal that it is more than likely not going to pan out.

Whichever leadership qualities you posses or don't, whatever strengths you have or don't, my point is simply this. No matter how bad ass you are, successful you are, tall you are, good looking you are, muscular you are (insert anything here that a woman goes nuts over), she still has a choice as well. I'm not saying anything you don't already know, but too many men have the fallacious and arrogant (not confident, ARROGANT. Reiteration, not saying this is you in this situation) assumption that "once I am ___" or "Once I have ____" she will say "yes." This is where men get themselves into trouble.

If she doesn't give you a tacit "go ahead" or positive signal when you advance or suggest, I suggest you advance those suggestions or flirts on another lady who WILL drop everything to just hear your voice or watch you step out of the steaming shower biting her lip.
 

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I edited it, hope you caught the change

and Whether you believe me or not, I genuinely think I have it. It might not come across in this thread, but I've been through things that would break most people things that have literally driven others to take their own lives. I'm not exaggerating, and I stayed calm the whole time in those situations. For now, I'm too exhausted to keep going
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If you're too exhausted to keep going, you own that you got yourself there on target fixation with one lady? Nothing wrong with wanting one specifically, but when you go for the one you want and she isn't hot for you or is giving weird 'signals' that IS your signal that it is more than likely not going to pan out.

Whichever leadership qualities you posses or don't, whatever strengths you have or don't, my point is simply this. No matter how bad ass you are, successful you are, tall you are, good looking you are, muscular you are (insert anything here that a woman goes nuts over), she still has a choice as well. I'm not saying anything you don't already know, but too many men have the fallacious and arrogant (not confident, ARROGANT. Reiteration, not saying this is you in this situation) assumption that "once I am ___" or "Once I have ____" she will say "yes." This is where men get themselves into trouble.

If she doesn't give you a tacit "go ahead" or positive signal when you advance or suggest, I suggest you advance those suggestions or flirts on another lady who WILL drop everything to just hear your voice or watch you step out of the steaming shower biting her lip.
Thanks man, appreciate you
 

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You've seen myriads of examples on how people ask people out successfully, how people ask people out stupidly and it failed hard, and been given advice on how others would do it and how they wouldn't. If you asked out as many ladies as you saw examples you'd need to be tested every couple weeks at least.

Your next post should be about how the 7 girls you asked out responded to you asking them out. Not how you're not so sure what to do with one. She isn't interested? You know what you SHOULD do, but if you want to frustrate yourself and subject yourself to pissful stagnation, (I just made that up! Antithesis of 'bliffsul!' feel free to use that!) that's fine with me.
 
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You've seen myriads of examples on how people ask people out successfully, how people ask people out stupidly and it failed hard, and been given advice on how others would do it and how they wouldn't. If you asked out as many ladies as you saw examples you'd need to be tested every couple weeks at least.

Your next post should be about how the 7 girls you asked out responded to you asking them out. Not how you're not so sure what to do with one. She isn't interested? You know what you SHOULD do, but if you want to frustrate yourself and subject yourself to pissful stagnation, (I just made that up! Antithesis of 'bliffsul!' feel free to use that!) that's fine with me.
Every so often, someone new shows up on the board asking about a girl they’re having issues with. They don’t like the advice they receive, then start insulting the people who responded and try to argue that they know better, even though they’re the ones facing the problem.

This pattern repeats over time, and, as noted in the previous post, it is not the first time someone has come into this forum thinking society is persecuting them because they are so important or exceptional; it comes from a delusional interpretation of their social interactions.
 

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Every so often, someone new shows up on the board asking about a girl they’re having issues with. They don’t like the advice they receive, then start insulting the people who responded and try to argue that they know better, even though they’re the ones facing the problem.

This pattern repeats over time, and, as noted in the previous post, it is not the first time someone has come into this forum thinking society is persecuting them because they are so important or exceptional; it comes from a delusional interpretation of their social interactions.
Amazing to see the contrast, and fascinating as well between the type of posts 26 years ago as opposed to now. I'm surprised we don't have a post in the tips forum with showering instructions and a post in the hall of excellence "from velcro to tying shoes"
 

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Every so often, someone new shows up on the board asking about a girl they’re having issues with. They don’t like the advice they receive, then start insulting the people who responded and try to argue that they know better, even though they’re the ones facing the problem.

This pattern repeats over time, and, as noted in the previous post, it is not the first time someone has come into this forum thinking society is persecuting them because they are so important or exceptional; it comes from a delusional interpretation of their social interactions.
Keep lying to yourself, you take everything out of context and again fill your fantasies with lies and over interpret things in your favor, like BPH, as I said you both are no different, and you both in reallity dont get any woman. I know you type of Guys in reallity. Thats why again, believe whatever you want you both are not worth to take serious
 
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