Best way to approach girls at stores(mall, grocery ect)

[Hollywood4life]

What’s the best way you guys go about approaching girls that work in stores ?

example :

-girl working behind counter of Target with nobody around

-girl working behind the counter at Target with her co worker or next to her that might be able to hear your conversation if you try to game

-girl in target working folding clothes

I’ve been opening with a simple direct opener( I think your cute ,I had to stop and find out if your personality matches ) and trying to get banter in for 2-3mins and getting the number . I’ve got 5 numbers from girls working in stores in the last month but none have went anywhere ...

I’m pretty new at doing full on approaches to the number close (was just only opening for 3yrs,no vibing/number close)

I find it hard to approach girls working and girls altogether if I think other people can hear our conversation ..I think they will get embarrassed to if people can hear us and I’m embarrassed myself if they hear us from old multiple beta mindset reasons that still linger inside of me...

Any words of advice about any of this would be appreciated

 

[Velasco]

 

[SargeMaximus]

approaching women who work places is not an accurate assessment of your game. They are literally paid to be nice and aren’t gonna risk losing their job.

 

[SW15]

The best way to meet women who work jobs in dealing with the general public is to meet them outside of their job.

 

[Robert28]

 

[Robert28]

Seriously, mine was just a joke. Don’t do what this dork does. He’s just funny to laugh at, he’s got a few videos out and man are they bad.lol

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I found the way that works for me is ask a relevant question. Usually work related. If she’s interested, she’ll make it obvious (unless customers/supervisors around). I’ll try & equal her level of interest. Feels like a tennis match. If it’s a place I go back to often (cafe, 7-11, convenience store...),I’ll take it slow & let it build for 3-4 encounters.

 

[Georgepithyou]

Colombia really looks like the place to be, so many fit young women.

The easiest conversions I've had in daygame is when I give her my number and she contacts me first.

That's a good tip, I'm going to start trying that out instead of asking for their number.

 

[Young OG]

"I think you're cute" - too generic and you're better off complementing her on something that's no related to her beauty. If you're going to complement her beauty then you should pick a more unique word. "You've got an enchanting smile" or something like that. It might seem corny, but at least it shows you're more creative than "you look cute." - real key is in your tone of voice when delivering a complement. You want to deliver it smoothly, and cool. Direct and confidently.

You're getting numbers so you're doing something right. The biggest challenge in Daygame is actually converting the numbers into dates. A way around this is to filter for true interest. You can do this by giving her a business card. If she contacts you then you're in a way stronger position. The easiest conversions I've had in daygame is when I give her my number and she contacts me first.

A chick who might not be interested in you and unavailable could give you her number just to make you go away. Girls like to avoid confrontation. It's also very demoralizing for you to collect lots of numbers that lead to nowhere. At least with giving her your number then you can leave the ball in her court and move on to your next target, rather then opening your phone and seeing 50 unanswered text messages that you've sent out.

There is nothing wrong with telling a girl she's cute when approaching during daygame. Nightgame I would advise against it. One compliment on looks is fine but no more then one. If the girl isn't smiling then you can't use your corny line. The "I think your cute line" has been working for guys for years. The way you deliver it is important, I'll give you that. Vocal tone, body language, and eye contact are all equally important.

The business card is about the most stupid thing I've heard of unless you have some extremely high value job title and look good. But, they still probably won't call. Women still want you to make the first move and they won't call no matter how interested they are. You could lose out on a lay because you give them your number instead of taking theres. It's best to be able to get to the point where you can tell when you're vibing with a girl and then get the number. If your not vibing then no point in getting a number when she won't respond. I only ask for numbers when I can tell were vibing. They almost always respond when I text. When I first started out, I would ask for the number no matter what and I then I would get ghosted alot.

 

[MatureDJ]

I like to hang around the escalator at the mall and wait for a hot plate to go up so I can do this ...