"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Best video on the subject ever - AMS

TheGambino

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I would advice EVERYONE to watch this.

Been dating a lot recently, also had a potential ltr girl that didn’t work out and the reason was her starting bullsh*tting me because I didn’t want to commit.

Ofc. if a woman yells in public, calls you bad names, really disrespects u I would always call her out on the spot and bail. I’m a man, not a b1tch.

Other things like, flirting with other men in front of u when ur dating for a while, flaking without a reason or standing you up, being late etc etc. Look at the video of ams. Don’t call her out.

Video content is GOLD. I completely agree after dealing with so much women, business and people.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I agree with this, I’ve made this mistake. It does have its place in comfort game, but can only be deployed very carefully. And it can only be done with a gal you know will react to it properly. Commiserating.

In short: DO NOT TALK BAD ABOUT EXES. You need to be positive, always, not in a fake way, just omit the bad parts.
 

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I would advice EVERYONE to watch this.

Been dating a lot recently, also had a potential ltr girl that didn’t work out and the reason was her starting bullsh*tting me because I didn’t want to commit.

Ofc. if a woman yells in public, calls you bad names, really disrespects u I would always call her out on the spot and bail. I’m a man, not a b1tch.

Other things like, flirting with other men in front of u when ur dating for a while, flaking without a reason or standing you up, being late etc etc. Look at the video of ams. Don’t call her out.
I had an FWB who tried the ‘flirt with other men’. thing. I countered by flirting with other women. that stopped her.
 
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