"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fergus

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I'm a salesman who commutes to work. There and back, the journey takes up about 3 hours of my day. In the morning, i feel run down and bored when i get to work which is a bad footing to begin selling on, and in the evening, I can do very little when i get back because I get home around 9.30. I want to make good use of that time, which i generally waste just reading the paper.
What's some good resources, be they books, music, podcasts, things to actually do, to make the best use of that time so I arrive at work more focused, and can educate myself going home rather than just feeling wiped out?

I see guys on here talk about audiobooks by people like Tony Robbins, Zig Ziglar and that type. What's the material like, and are any of them worth listening to?

No recommendations ignored, particularly not form other salesmen.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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... and Brian Tracy. They're awesome salesmen. Their speeches are so descriptive and positive. Deffinetly a great way to start the day selling.

Why don't you pick up one of their CDs from the library or ThePirateBay.org?
 

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I second the Brian Tracy recommendation. He's got dozens of CD programs that each are 10 or 12 CD's long. Brilliant stuff.

I used to live near a place called "Talking Book World," where you could rent CD courses like that.

If you want specific sales stuff, there's plenty of NLP tape programs that you can get and listen to. I'd recommend anything from maxpersuasion.com, although they are bit pricey.

Have a look at nightengaleconant, they've got loads of stuff.
 
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