"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
randomusername
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You guys were actually impressed with Honolulu? I've been twice in the last 6 months for 4-5 days....the best spots were places like Duke's and the Yardhouse, which are pretty generic.....went to Mad Dogs and a few other places
the bars in Waikiki itself were quite "dirty" and were full over skanky women...also hit up the W hotel on a Saturday and it kinda sucked.....
Don't get me wrong, there were a lot of beautiful women around...but a lot of recently married couples, lots of tourists (older pasty american-types), and things like that. And I was with locals too....love hawaii, the nightlife was so-so.
Seattle is a 2 hour drive from Vancouver, Canada. I really enjoy Seattle, I go there alot and have friends and relatives. Belltown is where I usually liked kicking it...nice restaurants, lounges, clubs....they have nice looking women. Portland, Oregon is also a fun city...its small, nice but there are some pretty women...i dunno, i don't hang out at the Granola places.
I live in LA, maybe I'm jaded on it...but nighlife is not that great. I've done the whole hollywood thing...just not into the vibe..i live by the beach so i hate venturing too far away....its just too inconvienient to get on lists, deal with snobby bouncers, and the cliquish stuff...private parties are fun but you have to know where they are......I mainly hang out in Santa Monica, Venice, Hermosa and Manhattan Beach...beautiful women....the average age tends to be a bit older though....San Diego is a great city....the bad thing with LA and San Diego is that the nights end early so you can't do what you do in other cities and leave for the town past midnight or whatever.....last call is at 130 and most places turn the lights up around 120am....
I was just in Chicago...love that city. Nightlife is fun, LOTs of bars and stuff to do. Also in the midwest, St. Louis is a great time.
New York kinda sucked..maybe i didn't know the spots to be at...but we just mainly went into a lot of small, indie type lounges and crap like that...it was ok....
Las Vegas is king in my book though as far as women, fun and things to do at night. Its not cheap though, I spend like 400 or 500 bucks a night when i go. I don't even know where the money goes....and i have hookups at the clubs for free admission and no lines....sometimes we do bottle service because its cheaper and better to have a table at a club....the pools are great...stay at the hard rock hotel...
the bars in Waikiki itself were quite "dirty" and were full over skanky women...also hit up the W hotel on a Saturday and it kinda sucked.....
Don't get me wrong, there were a lot of beautiful women around...but a lot of recently married couples, lots of tourists (older pasty american-types), and things like that. And I was with locals too....love hawaii, the nightlife was so-so.
Seattle is a 2 hour drive from Vancouver, Canada. I really enjoy Seattle, I go there alot and have friends and relatives. Belltown is where I usually liked kicking it...nice restaurants, lounges, clubs....they have nice looking women. Portland, Oregon is also a fun city...its small, nice but there are some pretty women...i dunno, i don't hang out at the Granola places.
I live in LA, maybe I'm jaded on it...but nighlife is not that great. I've done the whole hollywood thing...just not into the vibe..i live by the beach so i hate venturing too far away....its just too inconvienient to get on lists, deal with snobby bouncers, and the cliquish stuff...private parties are fun but you have to know where they are......I mainly hang out in Santa Monica, Venice, Hermosa and Manhattan Beach...beautiful women....the average age tends to be a bit older though....San Diego is a great city....the bad thing with LA and San Diego is that the nights end early so you can't do what you do in other cities and leave for the town past midnight or whatever.....last call is at 130 and most places turn the lights up around 120am....
I was just in Chicago...love that city. Nightlife is fun, LOTs of bars and stuff to do. Also in the midwest, St. Louis is a great time.
New York kinda sucked..maybe i didn't know the spots to be at...but we just mainly went into a lot of small, indie type lounges and crap like that...it was ok....
Las Vegas is king in my book though as far as women, fun and things to do at night. Its not cheap though, I spend like 400 or 500 bucks a night when i go. I don't even know where the money goes....and i have hookups at the clubs for free admission and no lines....sometimes we do bottle service because its cheaper and better to have a table at a club....the pools are great...stay at the hard rock hotel...
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
The best part is, LA is only a short yet fast drive from Vegas. You can do vegas cheap but you really have to know the ropes. Staying strip side will rape your wallet but some off strip locations can have a much cheaper experience and be relatively close to your favorite locations. Usualy the food and alcohol is cheaper off strip as well.randomusername said:I live in LA, maybe I'm jaded on it...but nighlife is not that great. I've done the whole hollywood thing...just not into the vibe..i live by the beach so i hate venturing too far away....its just too inconvienient to get on lists, deal with snobby bouncers, and the cliquish stuff...private parties are fun but you have to know where they are......I mainly hang out in Santa Monica, Venice, Hermosa and Manhattan Beach...beautiful women....the average age tends to be a bit older though....San Diego is a great city....the bad thing with LA and San Diego is that the nights end early so you can't do what you do in other cities and leave for the town past midnight or whatever.....last call is at 130 and most places turn the lights up around 120am....
Las Vegas is king in my book though as far as women, fun and things to do at night. Its not cheap though, I spend like 400 or 500 bucks a night when i go. I don't even know where the money goes....and i have hookups at the clubs for free admission and no lines....sometimes we do bottle service because its cheaper and better to have a table at a club....the pools are great...stay at the hard rock hotel...
I'm trying to get bigger wheels so I don't have to worry about that sort of thing though. Being big in vegas opens a whole bunch of doors world wide.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
True, true. I remember being an undergrad in Chicago and after working a second shift job we'd head out to the clubs and come home at sunrise. Rush Street rocks!randomusername said:..I was just in Chicago...love that city. Nightlife is fun, LOTs of bars and stuff to do.....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.