taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
Settle down IF or WHEN a girl who passes your criteria CONVINCES you to.
If you ever find yourself in a situation where you feel the need to convince a female to settle down with you, you've already lost.
Forget about time frames and focus on creating a SITUATION that will make it natural to settle down.
That situation is as follows:
You have enough income, wealth and security to withstand the HORRIFIC financial destruction a family will wreak.
The lady in question passes YOUR criteria.
She RECOGNIZES your value and SHE is the one convincing YOU to settle down.
IMO, focus on any"correct" phases in life, especially phases in life that are SEVERAL YEARS away is really a self-deceptive con. Designed by your ego to keep you from developing the strong social skills NEEDED to create the aforementioned situation.
e.g. "I'm not really supposed to settle down until I'm in my 30's since red pill guru says so" is really just a clever marketing con that many writers and youtubers use to sell books, get ad revenue.
Put it in the reverse. Suppose you met the PERFECT, ideal woman today. Andy by magic of mental experiment, you KNEW she would never stray, stay in good shape, etc.
Would you NOT settle down and create a family because some guy you've never met said so.
If the answer is NO to that, then the answer must ALWAYS be NO to any "ideal" phase of life.
In a sense, any idea of an imaginary future time in your life to settle down (or start your own business, lose weight, etc.) is a very clever marketing con that people eat up like crazy, as it reduces any current pressure toward REAL self development.
If you ever find yourself in a situation where you feel the need to convince a female to settle down with you, you've already lost.
Forget about time frames and focus on creating a SITUATION that will make it natural to settle down.
That situation is as follows:
You have enough income, wealth and security to withstand the HORRIFIC financial destruction a family will wreak.
The lady in question passes YOUR criteria.
She RECOGNIZES your value and SHE is the one convincing YOU to settle down.
IMO, focus on any"correct" phases in life, especially phases in life that are SEVERAL YEARS away is really a self-deceptive con. Designed by your ego to keep you from developing the strong social skills NEEDED to create the aforementioned situation.
e.g. "I'm not really supposed to settle down until I'm in my 30's since red pill guru says so" is really just a clever marketing con that many writers and youtubers use to sell books, get ad revenue.
Put it in the reverse. Suppose you met the PERFECT, ideal woman today. Andy by magic of mental experiment, you KNEW she would never stray, stay in good shape, etc.
Would you NOT settle down and create a family because some guy you've never met said so.
If the answer is NO to that, then the answer must ALWAYS be NO to any "ideal" phase of life.
In a sense, any idea of an imaginary future time in your life to settle down (or start your own business, lose weight, etc.) is a very clever marketing con that people eat up like crazy, as it reduces any current pressure toward REAL self development.