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Best time to pick up girls at the clubs/bars

dk1990S111

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During what time have you been the most successful at taking a girl home with you?

Some of my buddies like to get there later on in the night around 12 thinking that by that time everyone there is more likely to be drunk/drinking and open to being hit on.

Id like to get there earlier, thinking that the girls that go out looking to/open to going home with someone will be gone towards the end of the night and its just the undesirables and the girls that aren't looking for anything more than some attention that are still there at the end. Ofcoarse this isn't always the case but it just seems that way the majority of the time in my experience.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

dk1990S111

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Didnt think of it that way but thanks, that is another point Ill make to my buddies about going earlier in the night.
 

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Girls at clubs won't usually leave early with you even if they really like you because they usually will won't to stay drink more dance with you and build up the tension foreplay get to know u whatever u want to call it. Plus they are almost alwsys with friends or a friend so they don't want to look foolish or super slutty by leavingas soon as they meet u. If u find one flying solo though its much easier to progress faster.

Its very rare I've met a girl early in the night who was ready to leave right off the bat with the exception of a few cougars and girls who had gotten plastered all day long before that. People go to clubs to drink and dance.
 

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Best time to pick up girls in the Bar/Club scene is around 10pm when things are starting out. Between 10pm - 12am is the window IMO to strike up something while not being drunk but tipsy and things develop with that girl/s. As the night goes on and your dancing and drinking, it'll build up comfort and if shes feeling you then your chances of bringing her home are good. From 1am on it can get tricky because girls are already either pairing up with some guys they met earlier or they are too drunk. Def not a lost cause though as i have taken home many women in the 2am - 4am window who werent that drunk.
 
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