"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

best.....thread....ever on APPROACHING - from the Tips Section (must read)

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

S

skip2mylou781

Banned
Joined
Jan 14, 2006
Messages
1,796
Reaction score
11
Age
42
theres some good stuff here from all times - its just mostly in the TIPS section lol.......and there is good stuff in discussion as well, its just everytime lately someone tries to post somethin inspirational, certain afcs keep re-iterating that "its all been said already", thus experienced people stop posting to inspire and all the AFCs are now making this site into girlproblems.com
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top