"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Best simple gestures

Kryptonhero

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So, I wanted to ask you guys(the experts) about something that I can't find. I wanna know about what are small simple gestures that can make you look like you are probably the best guy around. Little things that have a really good impact on what a girl thinks about you. I am talking about a girl you previously know and we are both teenagers. But anyway, please answer for adults and girls you might have just met as well. Also, if there's somewhere else where I can get the answers(like a previous thread) please tell me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kryptonhero said:
Little things that have a really good impact on what a girl thinks about you. I am talking about a girl you previously know and we are both teenagers. But anyway, please answer for adults and girls you might have just met as well.
Use Kino on everyone. Head up, smile, straight back, relaxed shoulders, steady walking pace and eye contact.

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Also, if there's somewhere else where I can get the answers(like a previous thread) please tell me.
The DJ Bible, under attraction I believe.
 

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Thanks Frayzer, I am researching that right now, but I kinda meant more of like something for her to be emotionally attached to me, because we are in the rapport state, but I want to know like something that can actually make it grow a lot with a nice gesture, cause I know she would love it if I did something like that, but I just can't figure out what I can do to get her hooked.
 

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You're obviously confused ....theres no "nice gesture" to.get her hooked, buying flowers and ****.doesn't work like in the movies....

You get her hooked by being a boss...and like the guy above me said kino the **** out of her.
 

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Definitely show her your penis. She'll fall in love with you in no time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Amo said:
Definitely show her your penis. She'll fall in love with you in no time.
They talk about this in how I met your mother. It's called the naken something, basically when she leaves the room strip down and make a sexual pose. 2/3 times you will get laid

Just kiding, don't do that. That's the worst seduction technique out there
 
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