"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chickfight

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What's the best way to respond after a girl you're semi-dating/ have banged sends you a long message saying that you shouldn't see eachother anymore for some bullsh!t reasons, probably still into her ex.

1. It's fine, bye.

2. It's cool. I'm tired of your bullsh!t anyway.

3. no response at all
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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runner83

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This:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=182054

In this case, no contact is best since it will get her wondering if you got the message, whether you were upset etc etc

Indifference and mystery are your best weapons.

And there is just a chance she may come crawling back.
 
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