"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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1. INSTILL DREAD.

Nothing will set your girl in line or fix things than instilling dread.

She has a low interest level in you after 6 months of a relationship?

Disappear for 2 weeks and do something amazing. Game another girl.

Even cheat on her, then let her know. Then face all her beatings and emotional rampage. After she has settled down, let her know you will love her forever and that things will be okay.

The whole time, dont apologize and it'll make her wonder if it was her fault.

Thus, you will have a love slave for life.

^ overexageration about cheating thing, but you get my point
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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chiyeung said:
1. INSTILL DREAD.

Nothing will set your girl in line or fix things than instilling dread.

She has a low interest level in you after 6 months of a relationship?

Disappear for 2 weeks and do something amazing. Game another girl.

Even cheat on her, then let her know. Then face all her beatings and emotional rampage. After she has settled down, let her know you will love her forever and that things will be okay.

The whole time, dont apologize and it'll make her wonder if it was her fault.

Thus, you will have a love slave for life.

^ overexageration about cheating thing, but you get my point
Strongly disagree with this... This sounds like a strategy a weak low-value male would use to manipulate women to stay with him. A girl should stay with you because you're a high value dude who's got his shiit together. Do you seriously think that you'll have to resort to these methods if you're in elite shape, an animal in the sack, have a great career/good income and finances, strong social skills and dominant/assertive qualities?

After 6 months in a relationship you should be having crazy monkey sex... Definitely should not be in a relationship if there's low interest at that point. As a high value male you can dump and move on at will because you have girls that are basically waiting in line to have the privilege of being with you.

Instilling dread is not the "best relationship advice and general tip"... simply focus on being a dominant dude who's in elite shape (top 5-10% of male physiques), good career/income and finances, highly sexual (this is absolutely key), socially aware and adept, and generally a fun guy to hang with. I promise your results and the quality of women you can attract will be exponentially better.

Just my 2 cents.
 

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Horrible advice OP.

If you have to resort to such drastic measures just to artificially augment a girl's interest after 6 months...you got problems. Anybody who schemes, aspires, and tries to create interest in a girl has missed to boat completely. You're trying to manipulate the game instead of becoming a STUD at the game. Attraction is not a choice. Low interest after 6 months?? First look at yourSELF, then if you're still on point you move on and get back in the saddle like a Man.
 

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In here to save my e-dignity. I guess i should have made it clearer. No this is not horrible advice. This is infact great advice.

Let me be clear. This is a last ditch resort for those who have failed.
I explain it better here

One can be Alpha and what not, one can be a DJ, but is everyone one? No. This advice, I guess is geared towards those who need that one last chance to save their relationship and improve from their. Sorry about the lack of specifics.

When i mean instill dread, i mean to keep them on their toes, girls will get bored of the same old same old.

Roissy says it best
Women respond viscerally in their vagina area to unpredictability, mixed signals, danger, and drama in spite of their best efforts to convince themselves otherwise. Managing your relationship in such a way that she is left with a constant, gnawing feeling of impending doom will do more for your cause than all the Valentine’s Day cards and expertly performed tongue love in the world. Like it or not, the threat of a looming breakup, whether the facts justify it or not, will spin her into a paranoid estrogen-fueled tizzy, and she’ll spend every waking second thinking about you, thinking about the relationship, thinking about how to fix it. Her love for you will blossom under these conditions. Result: she works harder to please you.

The key for the man is to adopt a posture of blase emotional distance alternated with loving tenderness. Too much of either and she’ll run off.
Some many never come across this problem, but some will. IF you don't then there is no need.
This advice helps extremely well during her ovulation period when she craves foreign penis the most
 

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Sorry man, still not buying it... it still seems like a strategy that a pu$$y a$$, desperate AFC would use to manipulate a girl to artificially create interest in a last ditch attempt to save a dying relationship. The smarter and more productive thing to do would be to ditch the girl and focus on becoming a better man.

When you're a high value guy you don't ever have to consider staying in relationships where interest is low because you can simply next the girl and move on... Finding girls is a cake walk. The strategy you're suggesting is manipulative and reeks of AFC desperation... Like the majority of weak guys on this site you're advocating manipulation and using game rather than simply improving oneself to becoming a better product.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Low interest levels can still occur if you are Alpha as ****.

You can improve yourself all you want. Go to the gym, have hobbies and love ****ing life.

You still apply game to relationships.

This advice is for a AFC or someone who is attempting to SAVE THEIR RELATIONSHIPS so they can learn from their mistake and move on.

Sometimes people don't want to give up their relationship after a 4 year commitment or marriage.

P.S If you read my blog, I do say to improve yourself. Pursue your own interest and hobbies, and do something amazing!

You show you aren't afraid to move on or walk away. You don't act it. You live it.

An AFC would not do this. A AFC would question her and annoy her to death about how he can "make it better"
 
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