Best rejection ever

[quizling]

So, met this girl, met up with her, ended up fooling around at my place. She told me I wasn't her type, but got her clothes off for me anyway. Wouldn't fvck but did most everything else.

Silence for a few days, then I hit her up and she says she "doesn't think a relationship would work". I feel the instinctive ego-hit, but reply: "ok, cool." She replies, "But maybe we could fvck, just once?"

We chat a bit and she says she doesn't find me at all attractive, I am not her type - too skinny, too old - but for some reason I turn her on and she doesn't know why.

A few messages later, and she's in my bed, having the time of her life.

Not sure what happened, but it was a good day...

I'll never understand women.

 

[Desdinova]

I'll never understand women.

Let me point it out...

Words:

She told me I wasn't her type,

she says she "doesn't think a relationship would work

she says she doesn't find me at all attractive

Actions:

ended up fooling around at my place

got her clothes off for me

she's in my bed, having the time of her life.

Always read her actions, not her words.

 

[quizling]

Yes I agree, it is obvious she is into me, from her actions, but what I don't understand is why say she isn't .. she seemed keen to push me away. I'm sure the answer is obvious but I don't get it - she is very attracted to me yet basically tried to dump me.

 

[Armourhead]

Yes I agree, it is obvious she is into me, from her actions, but what I don't understand is why say she isn't .. she seemed keen to push me away. I'm sure the answer is obvious but I don't get it - she is very attracted to me yet basically tried to dump me.

Could be a **** test to see if you begged or bent over backwards to get her anyways. Seems like you didn't do that so you passed the test = her legs open

 

[StacksHitEmUp]

Definitely a **** test. Where most guys would have begged or started cursing her out or pull some other desperate ****, you played it cool and acted like you didnt give a ****. Well played.

 

[Masculinity]

We chat a bit and she says she doesn't find me at all attractive, I am not her type - too skinny, too old - but for some reason I turn her on.

I'll never understand women.

The very reason why spaces like this forum exist!

 

[old_skoolr]

You should always pay attention to what women say.

Though none of your listening should be done from whats coming from her mouth.

 

[FCB]

Either a **** test or maybe her saying that to a guy turns her on? Either way you handled it well, I'd keep handling it well, just laugh at her and escalate showing her bull**** doesn't phase you and every time she says that just grab her and bend her over, that is indifference/confidence and power I can understand why a woman would get turned on by that. She basically **** all over you and you didn't blink an eye and ****ed her, she wanted you to win and you knocked it out of the park. Pat yourself on the back and don't worry about it, she is turned on by your actions and how you handle adversity if looks and age mattered she wouldn't be ****ing you but you are her Chad.

 

[quizling]

Well after this she came back and said she doesn't want to do it again as I am not her type and remind her of someone she doesn't like, or some such BS. Whatever, ignored and maybe she'll be back some time, maybe not...

 

[pyros]

the answer is pretty simple, and I know it for sure, because a female friend of mine did the same thing with a guy.

The issue is that...she is horny, she is kind of lonely, and you're probably the only guy pursuing her now.
She doesnt really find you attractive but...well, she's horny, and you are good enough.
She wouldn't like it to be seen in public with you (this is why she told you already she doesnt like you physically and doesnt want a relationship with you) but she would like to have sex with you at least once (as she says), just in case you fvck her good, so at least she can get her needs satisfied...

 

[FCB]

the answer is pretty simple, and I know it for sure, because a female friend of mine did the same thing with a guy.

The issue is that...she is horny, she is kind of lonely, and you're probably the only guy pursuing her now.
She doesnt really find you attractive but...well, she's horny, and you are good enough.
She wouldn't like it to be seen in public with you (this is why she told you already she doesnt like you physically and doesnt want a relationship with you) but she would like to have sex with you at least once (as she says), just in case you fvck her good, so at least she can get her needs satisfied...

Yeah that probable makes the most sense, she wanted to **** you but wanted to temper your expectations so that you don't get clingy or expect to keep seeing her and take her out in public. You won, you got to bang her, just play it cool ignore and if she doesn't hit you up I'd hit her up down the line and see if she wants to hook up again NSA.