"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Best proof about why looks don't matter

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Hello,

I met a girl, 7 months ago, not a model or anything like that, but she's probably the most beautiful face I've personally seen.(she's an overall HB9) I asked her out, but back then she pulled the boyfriend card out, so I just forgot about her,

I was looking at profiles of friends on Facebook, and browsing through friends of friends of friends I found her... again, now that the privacy on Facebook has been turned down a notch I was able to see, Who she's now married to !

OMFG! WTF! He's just too damn fugly for her ! Well, I just thought I'd mention it here because it's most extreme case 'beauty and the beast' I have ever seen in my whole life.

If you're interested in seeing it yourselves let me know and I'll give you the name for you to look it up on facebook. I haven't found a way to upload a file... Too bad, I would have done just that.

I reiterate that I'm only posting this to encourage people including myself to better themselves, Attitude is everything !

PS. Let me know if there's a way to upload pics.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Upload the pic to imageshack.us. Or hidebehind.com also fapomatic.com
 
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ChaoticGamer said:
Hello,

I met a girl, 7 months ago, not a model or anything like that, but she's probably the most beautiful face I've personally seen.(she's an overall HB9) I asked her out, but back then she pulled the boyfriend card out, so I just forgot about her,

I was looking at profiles of friends on Facebook, and browsing through friends of friends of friends I found her... again, now that the privacy on Facebook has been turned down a notch I was able to see, Who she's now married to !

OMFG! WTF! He's just too damn fugly for her ! Well, I just thought I'd mention it here because it's most extreme case 'beauty and the beast' I have ever seen in my whole life.

If you're interested in seeing it yourselves let me know and I'll give you the name for you to look it up on facebook. I haven't found a way to upload a file... Too bad, I would have done just that.

I reiterate that I'm only posting this to encourage people including myself to better themselves, Attitude is everything !

PS. Let me know if there's a way to upload pics.
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Oh, I believe you. I see it all the time. Don't know if you've read any past posts of mine. Does this guy have a lot of money, good game, any kind of social status?
 
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Could just be a bad picture of him.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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He could have money. Looks catch a break when there's money behind that ugly face.
 
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First you say it's proof, then you say that it's an extreme and to make matters worse you don't even have a picture. This contradicting stuff sucks a golfball through a garden hose.
 
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Dude.. the only proof u have is that shes not interested in you.

I used to be "married" to all kinds of chicks on fb.

But still yeah looks has nothing to do with it in general.
 
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J. Darko said:
This contradicting stuff sucks a golfball through a garden hose.
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Haha, nice. Never seen the quote used like that.


I think the best proof that looks don't matter is...the world. Just take a look around you and watch the lowlife dudes that haven't changed their clothes in weeks and make Lyle Lovett look like a Gucci model with mulitple HB 9+'s at their side. Any top-level guru/DJ will laugh at you if you ask him if you need good looks to pull the chicks you want. This is real, real basic stuff. As in, first few pages of the Bible basic.
 
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All right Guys,

I'll let you be the Judges, And THEY ARE married.

Sorry for the delayed response. I couldn't get my hands on a computer until now.

And regarding any info about the guy... I have none. don't know about his money, or social status, like I said I only talked to this girl for a couple of hours 2 months ago; and I kinda did ok, negging her and stuff, but when I tried to #-close her, She pulled the BF-card out !

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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OK, I don't wanna come across as a d1ck, but. . .

She's a 7 (in my opinion). She's not a 9 and she's not the most beautiful girl I've seen by a long way. That guy isn't "damn fugly" - I know some girls who would find him attractive just by his appearance. He has a certain look going on for him that suits him well, and that he is "ugly" isn't true in my opinion. He probably has high confidence, rolls well and has good banter.

Getting a girl like her is possible for most any guy who's not ugly and has good chat/confidence.
 
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I stand firm in my affirmations. She IS very good looking.
Much better than she looks in that picture, I assure you.

And c'mon, If that guy is attractive(looks only) then I'm the new Brad Pitt.
 
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ChaoticGamer said:
I stand firm in my affirmations. She IS very good looking.
Much better than she looks in that picture, I assure you.

And c'mon, If that guy is attractive(looks only) then I'm the new Brad Pitt.
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Haven't you learned anything here? Looks don't matter when the guy has lots of status or wealth. And no, that chic isn't that hot. I know 1 ugly guy who gets hot girls all the time, he is short and fat and balding and...he has a Learjet.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Focus on what this thread is about... evidence that looks don't matter.
Not even money If I may dare to take a guess in this case.
 
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Looks matter. But no one likes to hear it, because it sucks, right?

What you really mean is that there are other things that also matter, and depending on how much of the other stuff you have, and depending on your looks, and depending on who the girl is, you can make your appearance much less significant. But, that's too complicated and doesn't sound nearly as cool as the looks-don't-matter slogan, so let's return to the scheduled broadcasting:

Duuude! Only chumps think looks matter! You see girls with ugly men all the time! Don't be a buzzkill! Self-confidence is all you need! ...and so forth.
 
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She aint even hot. They are going to have ugly ass kids...She's like a 6, and that's being generous.
 
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She looks average I'd say, but yet that's only one picture. There have been many times where I've seen only one picture of a woman and didn't think much of her, and then seen a bunch more later on that made my opinion do a 360. And there have also been many times where I've seen lots of pictures and didn't think much of her, until seeing her in person.

The best way to judge someone on their looks is to actually physically see them in person.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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