"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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If you don't have a tan already that can help.

I do have acne so other than stuff for that I don't use any skin products.
 

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A tan, firming clay, and some moisturizer. Oh, and stridex pads - they take the dirt off.
 

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Originally posted by [T]he ishop
A tan, firming clay, and some moisturizer. Oh, and stridex pads - they take the dirt off.


Any particular firming clay you recommend? I use Neutrogena SPF Moisturizer and I'm happy with that....kinda late to get a tan so I'll see what I can do.
 

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It's never too late to tan - just go to an indoor tanning bed.

"Got 2 Be" has a clay out, I just bought it today from the drugstore. I'll let you know how it works out.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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For a fake tan and moisturiser (as I get real dry skin from shaving), I use Avene. Gives a real look and doesnt stink.
 

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Originally posted by diablo
It's never too late to tan - just go to an indoor tanning bed.

"Got 2 Be" has a clay out, I just bought it today from the drugstore. I'll let you know how it works out.
How's it working?
 

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pHisoderms Clear Confidence wash in a pump bottle is working well for my face
 
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