"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Best "prestigeous car" for under $12,000? Any good ideas?

cyp6

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iv been saving up for a while now, sacrificing for not having a car to save up to buy a "nice" car almost halfway there =], im thinking a bmw Z3 would work nicely but the only problme is that its a roadster 2 seater.. eeek.. would have problems with mobbing deep with friends but then again ridding a bus is not exacttly mobbing is it.. haha.. anyway just cerious what else should i consider getting.. I would very much like to have that james bond feel to it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Bartender

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3000GT or Stealth

Boxter (you can find them this cheap but gonna have some miles)

BMW's / Benz'
 

backbreaker

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98 or 99 lexus SC400/SC300... absolute best you can do for that price range
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ford Pinto :rockon: trust me, it is a pimp mobile

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ValleyDJing

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Benz or beamer if you're 25+ yrs old.

You're 19 like me. Mustang.

Are they rare? No.
Are they exotic? No
Can you mob in them? 4 seater with a very cramped back seat no.
Do chicks dig them? Ab-so-lutely. And when it comes down to it, thats all that matters. Don't let other dudes rag on your car. Because if the girls like it, who gives a s.hit right? Also, get a drop top if possible. Even better for them summer days. Females will get all hot and bothered just at the thought of cruising with you sitting on those leather seats with the wind in her hair on a warm summer day with the stereo bumping. Thats truth bro.

And no, I'm not going to argue with anybody on this point.
 

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Just out of curiosity, have you factored in the cost of insurance for a 2-door sports car?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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^^^^ not yet.:/... but i have the option of getting liability insurence because i will pay cash for it... Mustanges are the tite, will seriosly consider it hahaha..

but this was what i was thinking.. save up for another month.. buy a 95-97 3000gt for around 6g and then slowly modifiy it... for looks first and then performace..

-body kit for wideness
-lambo the doors
-audio vidio system
-rims
-neon street glow-there leagal in california while car is not moving..
-lower suspenstion
-gps/rear view camera
-windo tinting

that should make it very 007 like... and would still be under 12... seems like a decent idea, what do you guys think?
 

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cyp6 said:
^^^^ not yet.:/... but i have the option of getting liability insurence because i will pay cash for it... Mustanges are the tite, will seriosly consider it hahaha..

but this was what i was thinking.. save up for another month.. buy a 95-97 3000gt for around 6g and then slowly modifiy it... for looks first and then performace..

-body kit for wideness
-lambo the doors
-audio vidio system
-rims
-neon street glow-there leagal in california while car is not moving..
-lower suspenstion
-gps/rear view camera
-windo tinting

that should make it very 007 like... and would still be under 12... seems like a decent idea, what do you guys think?
Please don't. I like you too much to let you do that.
 

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ahh the mistakes of youth....memories it brings back
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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if you would like to get a very good car, get a used civic.

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cyp6 said:
-body kit for wideness
-lambo the doors
-audio vidio system
-rims
-neon street glow-there leagal in california while car is not moving..
-lower suspenstion
-gps/rear view camera
-windo tinting

that should make it very 007 like... and would still be under 12... seems like a decent idea, what do you guys think?
Fast and the Furious wasn't a 007 movie, smart guy.
 

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MetalFortress said:
Fast and the Furious wasn't a 007 movie, smart guy.
True, but you gotta give him a break. He was born in somalia or something if I remembered correctly.
 

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cyp6 said:
^^^^ not yet.:/... but i have the option of getting liability insurence because i will pay cash for it... Mustanges are the tite, will seriosly consider it hahaha..

but this was what i was thinking.. save up for another month.. buy a 95-97 3000gt for around 6g and then slowly modifiy it... for looks first and then performace..

-body kit for wideness
-lambo the doors
-audio vidio system
-rims
-neon street glow-there leagal in california while car is not moving..
-lower suspenstion
-gps/rear view camera
-windo tinting

that should make it very 007 like... and would still be under 12... seems like a decent idea, what do you guys think?

Looks first then performance?

Sure, if you don't mind being a poser.

Sounds like you've got your priorities backwards.

All the F&F crap is a waste of time and money, and looks stupid as hell.
 

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Listen to me on this one bro:

First off, ValleyDJing's post was on point. If you're in your teens or twenties get a Mustang GT (thats the V8 with dual exhaust), droptop prefferably. If you're gonna ask me "Well Chris what about gas mileage and reliablity" you don't get it and shouldnt consider this car. But if you want a ride that will pull you *****es like your a rockstar then you cant go wrong with it. Unless you plan on racing it, the only mod I would recommend is swapping out headers and the exhaust system so that your **** will be loud as possible. Belive me this is what you want this will get the girls attention on you and your ride. I've had numerous friends with this car and I am constantly ASTOUNDED how much attention girls give it, especially considering its not even that expensive of a car.

If you can't afford it then go with either an Eclipse (again preferably drop top) or a truck (make sure its clean).
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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