Hey Guys!^^
To be honest: This one single question was one of the main reasons, why I signed up here. Apart from the fact, that I also tended to read some of the threads here every now and then and that things like the DJ Bible or the DJBC are, simply put, beautyfull pieces of art, so I think it is a good thing do sign up to such a great forum xD
Okay, back to the original question:
What are the best places to talk to strangers - Well, I especially mean women, of course xD
On the open street? In shops? Cafes? Well, I'm a student, so maybe at the university (But: Doesn't work very well)?
Oh, and what I should also mention: I'm from Germany and I dunno, if anyone of you has ever been there recently, but I have never been to the US and as far, as I can tell, the circumstances here are not even quite as good as how I imagine them to be in other parts of the world.
Things like Bars (as far as I know them from american Sitcoms/Movies/etc.) just don't exist here, there are like 8321024875791 Discos in every town and some strange kinds of hybrids, that look like bars but there is ear-destroying electro-music playing all the time which makes starting a conversation just impossible. Which isn't even really necessary, 'cause something like 95% of the girls here seem to want to win a price as "Slut of the year" and don't even bother hiding it. Cheating is an everyday-phenomenon and most of 'em are more interested in ONS than in real relationships. The only way to get to some kind of a relationship with any kind of woman is by squeezing her body parts while she's shaking her hips to terrible "music" which hasn't changed since the good ol' 90s.
Well, al least this is the only way in 95% of all cases. May be, that there is still the slight possibility of getting to know someone the normal way, but here, this is war. Making eye contact has become nearly impossible, since everyone who isn't talking to their friends about how many guys she had that weekend is listening to music and starring to the ground, while being surrounded of a big, fat wall, that just shouts: As long as the outside world is anything else than loud music and cheap drinks, leave me alone!
And there's another thing which is kinda problematic. I'm not the type of guy who can simply go over to a girl, spout out some kinda Pick-up-Line and then she is completely head over heels (you wouldn't believe how often this can be seen here...). For such stuff, I am just a little bit too shy. I mean, of course I can talk to strangers, but, as stupid is this may sound, I need some good opening, something like a real reason to talk to them, and I think it would be lots easier if not anyone would be surrounded by such a discouraging aura as it is the case most of the time.
So, has maybe anyone got any kind of idea? I would appreciate just everything 'cause I really want to know, if there is an answer to my question - Or isn't there a "best" place?
Kind regards, (btw, in Germany you would say mfg, which I think sounds a bit more...casual? xD)
TBN
To be honest: This one single question was one of the main reasons, why I signed up here. Apart from the fact, that I also tended to read some of the threads here every now and then and that things like the DJ Bible or the DJBC are, simply put, beautyfull pieces of art, so I think it is a good thing do sign up to such a great forum xD
Okay, back to the original question:
What are the best places to talk to strangers - Well, I especially mean women, of course xD
On the open street? In shops? Cafes? Well, I'm a student, so maybe at the university (But: Doesn't work very well)?
Oh, and what I should also mention: I'm from Germany and I dunno, if anyone of you has ever been there recently, but I have never been to the US and as far, as I can tell, the circumstances here are not even quite as good as how I imagine them to be in other parts of the world.
Things like Bars (as far as I know them from american Sitcoms/Movies/etc.) just don't exist here, there are like 8321024875791 Discos in every town and some strange kinds of hybrids, that look like bars but there is ear-destroying electro-music playing all the time which makes starting a conversation just impossible. Which isn't even really necessary, 'cause something like 95% of the girls here seem to want to win a price as "Slut of the year" and don't even bother hiding it. Cheating is an everyday-phenomenon and most of 'em are more interested in ONS than in real relationships. The only way to get to some kind of a relationship with any kind of woman is by squeezing her body parts while she's shaking her hips to terrible "music" which hasn't changed since the good ol' 90s.
Well, al least this is the only way in 95% of all cases. May be, that there is still the slight possibility of getting to know someone the normal way, but here, this is war. Making eye contact has become nearly impossible, since everyone who isn't talking to their friends about how many guys she had that weekend is listening to music and starring to the ground, while being surrounded of a big, fat wall, that just shouts: As long as the outside world is anything else than loud music and cheap drinks, leave me alone!
And there's another thing which is kinda problematic. I'm not the type of guy who can simply go over to a girl, spout out some kinda Pick-up-Line and then she is completely head over heels (you wouldn't believe how often this can be seen here...). For such stuff, I am just a little bit too shy. I mean, of course I can talk to strangers, but, as stupid is this may sound, I need some good opening, something like a real reason to talk to them, and I think it would be lots easier if not anyone would be surrounded by such a discouraging aura as it is the case most of the time.
So, has maybe anyone got any kind of idea? I would appreciate just everything 'cause I really want to know, if there is an answer to my question - Or isn't there a "best" place?
Kind regards, (btw, in Germany you would say mfg, which I think sounds a bit more...casual? xD)
TBN
