"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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BEST PLACES TO MEET GIRLS (the list)

COD

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1) SPEED DATING EVENTS-go online, find a company, and sign up. Guaranteed to meet anywhere from 10-30 single women. You get to converse with each and every one of them in a series of mini-dates one on one. 2-5% second date success rate.

2) SCHOOL-the chics out-number the guys (70:30) ratio when it comes to education. Take a class to get more ass. You already have tons in common-you can carpool, set up a study date, pretend U need some private tutoring, even the teachers are single. 25% success rate.

3) ONLINE-there are over 1400 different dating sites available. You name your preference and odds are there is a Net-Dating site for you. Some are free and some cost a few bucks. This is no longer just for geeks or desperate losers. TONS OF HOT CHICS here for you to choose from all from the privacy of your home. 10% success rate.

4) CLUBS/BARS-despite what everybody claims, women ARE NOT tired of the bar scene. Many hotties still venture out to weekend hot spots. Alcohol, music, low lighting and loose women, what more could you ask for. 25-30% Success rate.

5) SPECIALTY EVENTS-pay attention to the local news (radio) to find out what cool events (for women) are happening. Valentines ball, concerts, Halloween dances, fashion shows, festivals, wedding extravaganza’s, New Years eve parties, new malls, seminars, even sporting events…..single moms, etc.

6) WORKOUT-the local gym, take a Pilate’s class, kick boxing, TYBO. Tons of hot chics sweat at fitness centers everyday. Get there in the A.M. or after work. Gotta luv those skintight outfits, we’ve come a long way since leg warmers. Women appreciate a man that is fit. 1-2 men per 10 women !!!!!

7) ONE DAY SALES-if you can find a lady’s shoe store that advertises a sale you might wanna think about attending. Any type of sale that mostly women attend is what we call a target rich environment. Bed, Bath & Beyond, chic’s clothing, popular hair salon, tanning salon near spring.

8) NAIL SALON-yup you heard me, check one of these out on Saturday morning and you will see what I am talking about. The best part almost no competition. It might seem a little weird at first.....but getting a facial takes on a whole new meaning. Just remember they call it MANicure for a reason.......you be the man.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Those have truth, but the best way to meet a woman is through friends. Other than this, insert one's favorite hobby, and the answer is amidst the hobby.

A best way to meet women is something that I think is relative, but when you meet someone through a friend, abstract connections are already made because similarities are more likely.

Whereas if you meet a woman at a random place, it's like you have to meet her on accident, rather than just for the sake of meeting someone. When a friend introduces you to another, it's as if they are endorsing both people as good, which leaves many assumptions that may otherwise be relevant as irrelevant.
 

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i said PLACES.........NOT BEST WAYS..........if theres a 1000 women in one place........and very few men...........common sense tells me my chances might be a little better.

and anytime you ALLOW YOUR CHUMPS to introduce (do the work for you)women, that speaks volumes about your own confidence levels.

You be your own man and stand on your own two feet........don't rely on others to make it happen. No one knows you better than yourself.......go after the chics you desire not some lame second choice/leftover despret wannabes'.

Hobbies are for horses.........MEN DO MAN stuff..........chics already know this thats why they go where the men are. Having thigns in common has NO bearing on attraction.

Hey this chic likes what I like, cool but IF A CHIC IS SMOKING HOT........do U really give a ratts behind if she is clueless when it comes to car engines or doesnt play video games..........THATS WHAT BUDS ARE FOR.

ARE YOU LOKING FOR A BUD OR A STUD MUFFIN!!!!!
 

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COD said:
7) ONE DAY SALES-if you can find a lady’s shoe store that advertises a sale you might wanna think about attending.
I frequently find that being a single guy hanging out in a women's shoe store on a one-day sale is a great way to not look like a creepy douche.
 

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I would love to know what gym the OP goes to where there are 10 women for every guy. That's a load of crap.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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curves for women, lots of gyms cater to women.........U GOTTA TAKE THEM GIRLY CLASSES........yoga, tybo, and find out when most women go.
 

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is this the officia list?
 
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