"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Best places in Cancun?

mikeraw

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For those of you that have been to Cancun recently, what are the best places to hit up? I've never been and I'm going with my GF, so even some couple activities would be cool...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Evzone

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Haven't been, but Mexico's got crazy problems right now. The tourist areas like Cancun are probably safe enough, but just so you know.

Might also want to look into Vegas which is dirt cheap right now, or if you're not 21, Puerto Rico--only place in the US where the drinking age is 18.
 

HookEm'

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I went to Playa del Carmen with friends and we swam through a cave with wet suits on and spelunkers helmets. It is fairly cheap and something you could never do in the states. The pictures are deceiving as the majority of the time the only light is coming from your helmet lights and the guides flashlight but I would advise checking this out.
http://www.riosecretotours.com/

** And by the way I went recently so believe me when i say in this part of Mexico there is no trouble with violence or swine flu. If anything those two problems just made everything cheaper.
 

PRMoon

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La Boom! Cancun rocks all the time and is almost all geared towards tourism. I plan on going on a cruise there in the winter during slow season.

My question is why you bringin your girlfrind? That's like bringing sand to the beach as the saying goes!
 
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