Best place to approach girls in school?

[Viper]

Well, today, I saw this HB7, white girl, with a nice ass when I was walking in the hallway today, but the thing is, we don't have any classes together and when I see her in the hallway, she's either in a rush or talking to her friends. This doesn't just go for this girl either, but most girls are hard to approach in the hallways, because they're either talking with their friends or walking like they're in a rush or something. So I want to know, in High School, what are good places to approach random girls? Should I just straight go to the girls table at lunch and introduce myself?

 

[ethnomethodologist]

Hallways
bus stop
lunch room
during class
leaving class
water fountain
library
front steps
study room
comp room
detention*especially*
payphones
gymnasium
stairs to second floor
wherever everybody goes for recess
outside
parking lot

If theres a girl there, you can pick her up there. There is NO best place for ANY occassion.

You have to fit in, and stand out at the same time

 

[Holland]

What I do is building it up.

First you got to have some encounters.
For instance:
You see her in the hallway. Make eye contact, keep eye contact untill she looks away (she has to look away first!, you also have to have relaxed movement and confident posture).
Do that for a couple of times in the next 1-2-3 weeks. After a couple of times she will notice you two keep having eye contact. Eventually you can throw in a smile (she will probably do it herself after a couple of times). Note: *don't start off with a smile, just a couple of encounters with normal eye contact. Just keep a straight face.

Once she starts to smile, you can look for an oppurtunity to approach. It doesn't really matter what you say. Just be cool and say something like: "hey, I noticed you a couple of times, lately. What class are you in? blablablabla *insert more small talk*.
After 2-5 minutes of small talk.
Say: "hey, I got to go now, it was nice talking to you, see you later"
her: "ok see ya later"
*you turn away* * then turn back*
and say: "hey?"
her: "yeah?"
you: "do you have email?"
her: "yes (everyone has email!)"
you: "ow great give it to me" and then hand her a pen and something to write on"


Work on the first part first. The eye contact. You got to learn that first in order to get good approaches and emails.

 

[i am me]

/\thats good advice cept i would do it without the email part...

 

[The Master Disaster]

Originally posted by Holland
What I do is building it up.

First you got to have some encounters.
For instance:
You see her in the hallway. Make eye contact, keep eye contact untill she looks away (she has to look away first!, you also have to have relaxed movement and confident posture).
Do that for a couple of times in the next 1-2-3 weeks. After a couple of times she will notice you two keep having eye contact. Eventually you can throw in a smile (she will probably do it herself after a couple of times). Note: *don't start off with a smile, just a couple of encounters with normal eye contact. Just keep a straight face.

Once she starts to smile, you can look for an oppurtunity to approach. It doesn't really matter what you say. Just be cool and say something like: "hey, I noticed you a couple of times, lately. What class are you in? blablablabla *insert more small talk*.
After 2-5 minutes of small talk.
Say: "hey, I got to go now, it was nice talking to you, see you later"
her: "ok see ya later"
*you turn away* * then turn back*
and say: "hey?"
her: "yeah?"
you: "do you have email?"
her: "yes (everyone has email!)"
you: "ow great give it to me" and then hand her a pen and something to write on"


Work on the first part first. The eye contact. You got to learn that first in order to get good approaches and emails.

email is lame. Do AIM or MSN.

 

[[]D [] []V[] []D]

Originally posted by The Master Disaster
email is lame. Do AIM or MSN.

Not sh1t... a lot of times when we post in this forum (HS forum) and we ask girls for email, we really mean MSN or AIM. Did you realize that MSN and AIM are the same thing? Its a "tradition" to ask for her email.

you: "do you have email?"
her: "yes (everyone has email!)"

Hilarious. Once i asked a girl that question... she's like " who doesnt have email" LOL nontheless she still gave it to me, but i need another "line" here. It feels stupid asking that now.

 

[08aisaac]

Originally posted by Holland
What I do is building it up.

First you got to have some encounters.
For instance:
You see her in the hallway. Make eye contact, keep eye contact untill she looks away (she has to look away first!, you also have to have relaxed movement and confident posture).
Do that for a couple of times in the next 1-2-3 weeks. After a couple of times she will notice you two keep having eye contact. Eventually you can throw in a smile (she will probably do it herself after a couple of times). Note: *don't start off with a smile, just a couple of encounters with normal eye contact. Just keep a straight face.

Once she starts to smile, you can look for an oppurtunity to approach. It doesn't really matter what you say. Just be cool and say something like: "hey, I noticed you a couple of times, lately. What class are you in? blablablabla *insert more small talk*.
After 2-5 minutes of small talk.
Say: "hey, I got to go now, it was nice talking to you, see you later"
her: "ok see ya later"
*you turn away* * then turn back*
and say: "hey?"
her: "yeah?"
you: "do you have email?"
her: "yes (everyone has email!)"
you: "ow great give it to me" and then hand her a pen and something to write on"


Work on the first part first. The eye contact. You got to learn that first in order to get good approaches and emails.

This is pretty much the best way to go about it, and be garantueed a number. If you have enough mystery, she'll probably ask her friends about you, and if you have a good rep, you don't have to worry about her ditching you because of social value.

As for meeting girls, I like to meet people through friends. Like, you meet a person, then you have a mutual friend. You can have a conversation about that friend too, and since the mutual friend is also friends with you, she will think, "Well, you hang out with (mutual friend here), you must be pretty cool. This works great for meeting new people, and actually seems to be my preferred method.