Best Outergame product?

[hoebolord]

Hey guys, I've been in game for a while, haven't taken too much action recently but am starting to go out more. I've been hearing people tell me that I need some canned material, because I mean I can talk to people, in the daytime at least, I can make normal conversation, but I don't know what to do with strangers in a high energy environment.

I just get blown out super fast at night, I'm not learning ANYTHING. Like NOTHING. I feel part of my terrible results is because I literally know no outer game, all I've learned was from a website that's not to be named that only teaches inner game. Just be yourself and say whatever you want my arse. I mean I read Wayne Elise's book, but it kind of glosses over everything and gives you no canned material.

I mean the prospect of me getting a girl this way seems so impossible, I guess I'm just to mentally ****ed with anxiety to do it. I've been thinking of quitting it and doing it the way 99.9999999999% of the planet finds a mate, social status and money. Should I just go to med school? I'll be in my mid 30's when I get out so, I'll be trading looks for money, and obviously I'll have NO life for 7-8 years.

 

[Çharismo]

Learn to relax...

Originally posted by :- hoebolord

Hey guys, I've been in game for a while, haven't taken too much action recently but am starting to go out more. I've been hearing people tell me that I need some canned material, because I mean I can talk to people, in the daytime at least, I can make normal conversation, but I don't know what to do with strangers in a high energy environment.

Look brah -- "Game" isn't something you can learn overnight. It takes time to understand, utilize and employ all of this successfully with results. You can read whatever you want until you are blue in the face but eventually your weaknesses leak out and you fall flat on your face in real life. The crash and burn effect. This is also the main reason you see someone that has a 1000+ posts and eventually write about how they are trying to get there ex back. I highly recommend getting a sales job in a high-volume place because it will help you in your ability to communicate with strangers in high energy places. I used to work at the 3rd busiest Victoria's Secret a long time ago and it helped me a lot in terms of approaching and talking to women. I obviously got hired to work on the floor because of my looks but I got sharp and was able to instantly connect with people from all walks of life. You just have to get out of your comfort zone.

I just get blown out super fast at night, I'm not learning ANYTHING. Like NOTHING. I feel part of my terrible results is because I literally know no outer game, all I've learned was from a website that's not to be named that only teaches inner game. Just be yourself and say whatever you want my arse. I mean I read Wayne Elise's book, but it kind of glosses over everything and gives you no canned material.

This is what I was explaining to you earlier. Even if you have canned material it's someone else's creation. Canned material is still all BS and unless you develop the core personality that's required you will always fail. You need real life experience in order to even employ canned material and even then you might not get the required results. From reading your post I sense that you might not be so outgoing either. You don't have to be the center of attention everywhere you go but you have to get out of your comfort zone and that means to relax and just go with the flow.

I mean the prospect of me getting a girl this way seems so impossible, I guess I'm just to mentally ****ed with anxiety to do it. I've been thinking of quitting it and doing it the way 99.9999999999% of the planet finds a mate, social status and money. Should I just go to med school? I'll be in my mid 30's when I get out so, I'll be trading looks for money, and obviously I'll have NO life for 7-8 years.

You already gave up on yourself hence you are writing this. I say fuk medical school and start your own business if anything. Plus you don't want to go to medical school or do something just so you can pull women...it will never be worth it. If you have anxiety you have to find some way to calm down and relax yourself in approaching woman or people in general because you are making this into a big deal when it isn't. Start off by saying hi to random strangers, take small steps you'll be surprised how most people can open up.

Hopefully this helps! Keep the pimp hand strong!!!:rockon:

 

[_sideways_]

Doctors wont be as rich in the future....too many laws increasing their malpractice insurance, laws making it harder to charge patients for easy visits where as before they charged for everything.

Also, docs dont have a life much to speak of until years down the line.

Your whole mindset is..."im gonna work and put off women for a while". Wtf is that talk.

If u want women....today is the day. You think girls arent waiting for dudes....they just lik3 to wear that princess crown. I have fun playfully knocking that crown down.

 

[zekko]

tattoos

Lol

 

[hoebolord]

Doctors wont be as rich in the future....too many laws increasing their malpractice insurance, laws making it harder to charge patients for easy visits where as before they charged for everything.

Also, docs dont have a life much to speak of until years down the line.

Your whole mindset is..."im gonna work and put off women for a while". Wtf is that talk.

If u want women....today is the day. You think girls arent waiting for dudes....they just lik3 to wear that princess crown. I have fun playfully knocking that crown down.

Yeah women aren't fvcking worth it, I've seen so many times ppl with WORSE social skills and game than me get gf's and makeouts because they are tall/handsome/white. Because my eyes were opened to how much that external stuff mattered, I kind of stopped caring about girls, pointless validation. You want sex? Whack off, or work extra hours to buy a prostitute, MUCH more logical. You don't want sex, you want the validation that your existence is meaningful.

Really, the only reason I care is that it would be weird to be a virgin and ~35 yr old doctor, but I guess life is about doing you and not giving a fvck about what other people think.

And no, I can't do ANYTHING else other than medicine to bank, because then i would have to redo my education in something I'm passionate about, which would cost a ridiculous amount more time and money. Start up a business? Do you know the failure rate for startups? Might as well pour all your money into the lottery. You need a damn good fallback plan if you're starting a business.

And for real? No one got any basic outer game? Just because you had the luxury of having normal social experiences growing up doesn't mean everyone else had them.

 

[_sideways_]

Ur wrong....no one here gre up rich....or better than you did.

Thats why dudes are making out an doing more, because you give them a head start.

If we were friends, all ur energy would be saying im better, i had it nicer, u had it harder...therefore i would pick up on that energy and i would indeed step outside with a smile on my face. Then i would tell myself, fvck...ill do some push ups and sit ups cuz i feel good about life and i want to add a more beautiful me to it.

Then i would hang out with you again, and i would still feel that energy that you cant compete with me. So i of course would go for a make out way before you even thought about enjoying ur life.

Although its only friendly competition, why would i want to lose.

Seems to me ur comfortable sitting in the corner. Unfortunately this site attracts less social dudes, but the point is that once ur here you cant be a whiny little kid.

You dont go to med school and whine about how it sucks for you and no one else can relate.

Which is bullcrap because you cant know that. I had it less than ideal, but im not going to cry. Why would i?

This is a place where i can forget how lame i was and start becoming a fun azz piiiiaaaammmppp

I suggest you start or forever be left behind

 

[hoebolord]

Lol I have my worldview you have yours, what makes yours better? Just cuz you put ***** on the pedestal and mindfvck yourself that you didn't, hilariously all so you could get *****, doesn't make you better than me.

 

[Serenity]

Hey guys, I've been in game for a while, haven't taken too much action recently but am starting to go out more. I've been hearing people tell me that I need some canned material, because I mean I can talk to people, in the daytime at least, I can make normal conversation, but I don't know what to do with strangers in a high energy environment.
High energy environment? It's the same, just faster. You gotta be even more into the moment than usual, and process things faster and often just directly.

I just get blown out super fast at night, I'm not learning ANYTHING. Like NOTHING. I feel part of my terrible results is because I literally know no outer game, all I've learned was from a website that's not to be named that only teaches inner game. Just be yourself and say whatever you want my arse. I mean I read Wayne Elise's book, but it kind of glosses over everything and gives you no canned material.
If you're a pro at inner game, then take outer game inside. I always play with my imagination, awesome things to say and do. If your idea is bad, improve it. Keep improving it until you laugh your a55 off and just have to do it.

I mean the prospect of me getting a girl this way seems so impossible, I guess I'm just to mentally ****ed with anxiety to do it. I've been thinking of quitting it and doing it the way 99.9999999999% of the planet finds a mate, social status and money. Should I just go to med school? I'll be in my mid 30's when I get out so, I'll be trading looks for money, and obviously I'll have NO life for 7-8 years.
How are you going to build that social status and money? If you've got game you've got social status, and if you have social status you got it through game. Money is the stupidest way to attract women ever, most of them fvcking hate to be bought.

Life is a game, learn the rules and find your style of playing it. And if this is your attitude, then obviously you've failed at inner game. You gotta learn to make things fun, and to do that you need to have fun. It doesn't matter what way you get a girl, it only matters that you can reach the goal. I have never ever in my life used canned material or routines, I just learned the general layout of a pick-up and filled the blanks in the moment. When you're in a situation and forced to make stuff happen, it's amazing how creative you suddenly become. Even with anxiety, which will go away when you realize there's nothing to be anxious about.

It's funny because what you call anxiety I call excitement. Like if I'm talking to a girl and I'm not sure if she wants to make out or not, it just kicks in and drives me crazy. From past experience I can't pvssy out, so usually that's my cue to go for it and not care what happens next. I think Julien at RSD mentioned this in a video I saw a long time ago, he would go against his fear and literally chase it. So yeah, if you feel anxious then fvcking own it and don't let it own you.