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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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david90

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Is there an opener that we all can agree on that is the best and can be use in any situation?

Does "hi my name is __ what's your" sound cheesy to any of u? Seems like a classic and has been over used.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Open with whatever you like. Do it powerfully, with good body language and tonality. Expect them to stop.

You can compliment them, and compliment them on what you like about them.
 

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Originally posted by david90
Is there an opener that we all can agree on that is the best and can be use in any situation?

Does "hi my name is __ what's your" sound cheesy to any of u? Seems like a classic and has been over used.
^^^ these are the best ideas we have had yet
 

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I'm not a Senior Don Juan or anything... but why don't you try some situational openers instead of looking like a creepy stalker.

If a girl came up to me and said hi, my name is so and so... i'd be like yea... so? wtf do you want?

I think that's how most girls would react.

You're coming into a situation blatently showing a girl you like her. This is no different than telling a girl "i like you".

Anything is better than hi my name is...


Try saying something about the current situation, be spontaneous. Look at the thing she is doing, and say something about it it... Open ended questions work best.

For ultimate effect act like you give a sh*t about what they're doing and are interested by it. ;)
 
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it doesn't matter what you say, its either a compliment, a question or a slight recognition about what she is doing. observe, pay attention and just spit it out!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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