"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DiskJockey

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Anyone know of any.. I have bad social anxiety and can't approach just yet (yeah I know im a wuss).

I havn't had any luck with the internet either.
If anyone could tell me the best online sites that would be awsome...

I look good,

Here are my profiles

My Description:
I'm am a really easy to get along with, intelligent, honest and respectable guy. But I still joke around and Im not a wuss, won't take no **** from no One. I like working out at the gym, mixing Drum & Bass on ma turntables, fast Cars, Surfing, Basketball and hot Girly's!!! Wink

I am looking for:
A hot playful Chick Exclamation And a cool, smart, easy going and fun personality would also be a huge bonus but thats negotiable


or


Attention... This is my Headline!

I like fast cars (especially turbo ones), Mixing heavyweight Drum and Bass, Computer games, Playful Girly's with a nice Face / Boobies / Bottom etc, the Gym, Surfing, Basketball & a lil bit of Alcajamahol.
I Hate Arrogant people especially girls that are at the clubs going "Don't you wish your girlfriend was hot like me" and the guys & girls that are all "like, like, you know like what ever ma shizzle on the bizzle inside the triznit for some BIZNITALYBOTTOLYBITALLYBONG". Hehehehe

Any help much appreciated!

Also I live in Australia.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sp1kez

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your description is too common, you know, nothing really stands out from other normal dudes profiles, there was a thread a few years back on building a good profile, search and you'll find it.


I use okcupid.com , plentyoffish.com (more like plentyofmanatees)
 

nismo-4

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Sp1kez is absolutely right.

First off, online dating sucks. Stay with real world dating. If you can't get a woman here...you're sh*t out of luck.

To the OP: Your profile is too damn overused.
 

COD

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WELL SCORRING ON THE NET IS A SKILLSET...........profiles are of little importance so dont get all preoccupied with wrting a masterpiece. Focus that energy/creativity is designing ENTICING EMAILS AND CLEVER SUBJECT LINES and start contacting women.

Now thats geeric advice but reality is I can sense you are ill-prepared for IM, TEXTING, PHONE GAME, VOICEMAIL, FIRST DATE, ETC, ETC, ETC.

TOO manyh guys just want the magic phrase that will instantly drop a girls panties online.........ITS A WAY OF LIFE DUDE............it begins at inner game and U just dont have that basic faoundation solidified yet.

If I told you to cut n paste this with little or no explanation is would not be natural, it may even feel awkward.......you want to strive to be the master of online. The other reality is...........you will need to move on from the net and get REAL experience in field.

Too much info to just spew advice for you with net dating.
 
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