backbreaker
Master Don Juan
i remember when i very first came to this site i was in a motel 6 crying beucase the girl i loved was getting rammed by some toher dude. and every last person i knew in real life, had told me look, she' sjust not for you, she's not the right one, keep trying you will find the right one. and somewhere in my mind, i knew somehting about that **** just wasn't right. so i went online and i found this place.
I remember going home to my mom's house and waking up at night. beucase back then we still had dial up and my mom worked in the day so the only time i could really just use the internet fully was at night and just being overwhelmed with just how much **** was here. and this was 2002 lol. it just opened my eyes to like, oh this is how the **** is supposed to be done. i had to browse this site for a good 2 weeks and in the first 2 weeks, i never read the same thing. just page after page of good ****. stuff was making sense to me. a few days after the girl did what she did, i had learned enough on this site, not alot but enough to tell her look, if we aren't fvcking get out. don't call me.
i never thought i could understand all this **** here. and i'm not saying I do 100% but for the most part I think I did a pretty good job of sucking the info in. When i came here i was a confused, lazy skinny kid living with his mom. 10 years later i'm a married business owner with a son. that's a pretty fvcking big jump. lol I was chanign my sisters dipers when i first came here and **** she is taller than I am, literally.
Mecernery said something a few days ago on another thread that stuck with me.. after a point, you really can't learn **** anymore. And truth be told i was there years ago. Not saying i dont' pick up little nuggets here or there but I'm not getting any grand realizations or anything, and it' sjust time for me to close the chapter in my life and do something else.
I know some people think that I am a drama queen(or king) and that i am trying to seek attention; but you have to understand i was on this site months after 9/11. i grew up here, seriously. there are people on this forum, squirrels, desinova who i have known here longer than i have known my friends in real life. I was getting in heated debates with some of the members here about how all these new things my then oneitis was doing obviously pointed to her wanting me before 98% of the people here even found this site, so I have quite a bit of graitude to a lot of people here and at times, feel that i am obligated to give back as was given to me so Frey.
however i have come to the conclusion that , this can't work like that. the way this site is supposed to be is that you have the DJ bible, and you have field reports, and the forums are to talk about the bible and how it relates to your personal dealings and life with women. I mean, i can't tell you **** that you can't find here already so in reality i'm here for no more than my own egotistical need to help people and i realize that. . That and i care about this site and the message of the site too much to the point where I don't want to be a distraction to the main message and I am becoming that for whatever the reasons may be. once you get a little knowledge under your belt and a little success you tend to get so caught up in site politics that you forgot there are people out there really hurting. when i first came here i was hurting, very very badly. very badly and i needed to hear someone tell it ot me like it is. that's what this site is here for. with that said however, this site is too important for me to just leave without saying a few things and and saying a few good byes.
1. to anyone on this site who is new or lurking, don't make the same fvckign mistakes i did for my first years on this forum. lol listen to the people who know what they are talking about lol please it will save you nights of headache, heartache and every other ache you can think of.
2. Regarldess of how different or unique or speical you think this chick is or your relatinship wtih this chick is, rather it be a LTR or a LJBF relationship there are probalby 50 people here that have gone through exactly what you have gone through.
3. don't ever let anyone tell you what you can't do or can't have or can't achieve. you can anything you put your mind to if you want it bad enough the only thing you need to ask yourself is what are you willing to sacrifice to get it. don't be afraid to fail. with women and with life.
4. last but not least, man, these are just women. not rubix cubes, not scientific formulas. for as hard as we make them to be they aren't all that complicated.
I came here to get a particular set of skills and I ahve those now. I helped when i could and It's jsut time fo rme to let the site run it's course and let people do their thing.
warrior keep your head up buddy. you are going to be okay. even if you don't think so i have faith in you man i really do and i mean that.
prettyboyAJ you remind me of me more than anyone else on this site. you are a spitting image of me 8-9 years ago. you are going to aright dude just keep your head straight and money over *****es. they aren't going anywhere.
scars just don't let your baby momma steal your joy. I assure you she's going to try at some point. don't let her. you made some mistakes but you aren't a bad due, and don't let her lead you down that path. women can very easily.
burroughs, we have had our disagreements but i will honestly say you are one of the smartest people i have ever met, lol at least i think you are. for you it's the gift and the curse. your only problem is dude you think too fvcking much. just stop dude let it come to you. stop treating every situtation like you are taking a chemistry test. trust your gut take chances.
desi don't get soft on the young one, you are slippin man bad.
I mean, 10 years ago if you would have told me i would be where i am now i would have laughed you out the room. I am walking testimiet to what you can do, the success you can have with women with life if you just buckle down and roll up your sleeves and take on the issues in front of you.
take care guys. i will keep my pm's empty and check every month or so but i won't post any longer.
I remember going home to my mom's house and waking up at night. beucase back then we still had dial up and my mom worked in the day so the only time i could really just use the internet fully was at night and just being overwhelmed with just how much **** was here. and this was 2002 lol. it just opened my eyes to like, oh this is how the **** is supposed to be done. i had to browse this site for a good 2 weeks and in the first 2 weeks, i never read the same thing. just page after page of good ****. stuff was making sense to me. a few days after the girl did what she did, i had learned enough on this site, not alot but enough to tell her look, if we aren't fvcking get out. don't call me.
i never thought i could understand all this **** here. and i'm not saying I do 100% but for the most part I think I did a pretty good job of sucking the info in. When i came here i was a confused, lazy skinny kid living with his mom. 10 years later i'm a married business owner with a son. that's a pretty fvcking big jump. lol I was chanign my sisters dipers when i first came here and **** she is taller than I am, literally.
Mecernery said something a few days ago on another thread that stuck with me.. after a point, you really can't learn **** anymore. And truth be told i was there years ago. Not saying i dont' pick up little nuggets here or there but I'm not getting any grand realizations or anything, and it' sjust time for me to close the chapter in my life and do something else.
I know some people think that I am a drama queen(or king) and that i am trying to seek attention; but you have to understand i was on this site months after 9/11. i grew up here, seriously. there are people on this forum, squirrels, desinova who i have known here longer than i have known my friends in real life. I was getting in heated debates with some of the members here about how all these new things my then oneitis was doing obviously pointed to her wanting me before 98% of the people here even found this site, so I have quite a bit of graitude to a lot of people here and at times, feel that i am obligated to give back as was given to me so Frey.
however i have come to the conclusion that , this can't work like that. the way this site is supposed to be is that you have the DJ bible, and you have field reports, and the forums are to talk about the bible and how it relates to your personal dealings and life with women. I mean, i can't tell you **** that you can't find here already so in reality i'm here for no more than my own egotistical need to help people and i realize that. . That and i care about this site and the message of the site too much to the point where I don't want to be a distraction to the main message and I am becoming that for whatever the reasons may be. once you get a little knowledge under your belt and a little success you tend to get so caught up in site politics that you forgot there are people out there really hurting. when i first came here i was hurting, very very badly. very badly and i needed to hear someone tell it ot me like it is. that's what this site is here for. with that said however, this site is too important for me to just leave without saying a few things and and saying a few good byes.
1. to anyone on this site who is new or lurking, don't make the same fvckign mistakes i did for my first years on this forum. lol listen to the people who know what they are talking about lol please it will save you nights of headache, heartache and every other ache you can think of.
2. Regarldess of how different or unique or speical you think this chick is or your relatinship wtih this chick is, rather it be a LTR or a LJBF relationship there are probalby 50 people here that have gone through exactly what you have gone through.
3. don't ever let anyone tell you what you can't do or can't have or can't achieve. you can anything you put your mind to if you want it bad enough the only thing you need to ask yourself is what are you willing to sacrifice to get it. don't be afraid to fail. with women and with life.
4. last but not least, man, these are just women. not rubix cubes, not scientific formulas. for as hard as we make them to be they aren't all that complicated.
I came here to get a particular set of skills and I ahve those now. I helped when i could and It's jsut time fo rme to let the site run it's course and let people do their thing.
warrior keep your head up buddy. you are going to be okay. even if you don't think so i have faith in you man i really do and i mean that.
prettyboyAJ you remind me of me more than anyone else on this site. you are a spitting image of me 8-9 years ago. you are going to aright dude just keep your head straight and money over *****es. they aren't going anywhere.
scars just don't let your baby momma steal your joy. I assure you she's going to try at some point. don't let her. you made some mistakes but you aren't a bad due, and don't let her lead you down that path. women can very easily.
burroughs, we have had our disagreements but i will honestly say you are one of the smartest people i have ever met, lol at least i think you are. for you it's the gift and the curse. your only problem is dude you think too fvcking much. just stop dude let it come to you. stop treating every situtation like you are taking a chemistry test. trust your gut take chances.
desi don't get soft on the young one, you are slippin man bad.
I mean, 10 years ago if you would have told me i would be where i am now i would have laughed you out the room. I am walking testimiet to what you can do, the success you can have with women with life if you just buckle down and roll up your sleeves and take on the issues in front of you.
take care guys. i will keep my pm's empty and check every month or so but i won't post any longer.
