"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Best Number Closes!!!

Fluid

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I personally liek the one with the paper..

You pull out a piece of paper, put ur number down, say lets exchange numbers and she writes hers?

Any1 else have some good ones?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I-tallionStallion

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yeah using the add contact button on my cell phone
 

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i take my phone out to look at the time...

Girl: Hey, give me your phone!
Me: Why...?
Girl: I'm putting my number in.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rhoto

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I just try to put my number in as "SEX MACHINE" or "ALPHA AND OMEGA", in all caps.

This requires her phone however.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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2 set number close + bonus hug (real approach done by me)

*2 cute girls walking infront of me going opposite direction*
*homophobe taps friend of target in shoulder*
homophobe: Hi! can you do me a favor? introduce me to her!
*both girls shocked and laughing at my ballz of steel and confidence, obviously I don't wait and introduce myself*
homophobe: can I walk with you gals for a sec?
hb: sure
*we talk for like 30 seconds nothing important*
homophobe: I want to take you out sometime
hb: sure
homophobe: what's your #
*homophobe gets number, stretches out his arm and she gives him a nice hug*

My best one yet and it only took me like a minute and a half (the way it should be no girl is worth wasting 15 minutes of your time only to find out she has a bf already). Approached a 2 set, moving set and going the opposite direction. Basically what most guys avoid due to the difficulty of pulling it off. I was happy with how i disarmed the obstacle (her friend) with the opener but it was more due to showing confidence + good mod and eye contact.
 

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The Inside Man said:
The ones where you're talking and she just says, let me give you my #.
Ahhh, I love this one, it gives you a warm fuzzy feeling inside when a HB7+ does that. You then text her and she says "Sorry it was great meeting you but I kind of know lots of guys at my uni hall, but thanks anyway hun x".

Oooops, that's just me haha. :D
 
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