Nightwing
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by Ice Cold
and there's israeli fighting style (forgot what it's called)
I believe it's called Krav Magra.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Originally posted by Ice Cold
and there's israeli fighting style (forgot what it's called)
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Originally posted by Kuen1
This is important because many schools out there focus on point sparring, fancy kicks, and other things that are kind of worthless on the street.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Originally posted by felony
Hmm i don't care too much about fights. I'm not a fighting guy. And no one ever picks fights with me.. unless they are a bit drunk and jealous of my girl
Hmm i must apologise for posting this thread when i have now only noticed a few other martial arts threads! lol.
Right now i'm trying to gather more information on boxing in my area. The people who teach how to box, are they meant to have a particular qualification? I've heard that boxing doesn't do much for you in the way of muscles and building up your arms? I don't want to have HUGE arms... but i would like to think that after say a few months of boxing i would have decent arms plus maybe some pecs etc!
Also, fair enough about all that stuff about needing experience on the "street" to be a good fighter... but surely after boxing for a while, if i wanted to throw a punch, it would be much better and stronger punch than if i didn't do boxing right? So if two people had never fought, and one did boxing the other didn't they were roughly equal weight an so on, you'd have to put your money on the guy with boxing right?
Also, what is a reccomended level of boxing activity? I have noticed some places offering 10 weeks @ 45mins a week, and others that are open every day every night but no particular personal training.... though i'm guessing if a few guys are in the room working out, they'd help each other at the same time.
Or should i just grab a gym membership and do the speedball and bag work on my own? Perhaps after getting some instruction first?
Cheers,
felony.
My charm is a felony. But i need som strong arms to fend these
b!tches offa me !
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I am by no means at a level to compare different systems, but I did find that Systema is practiced at speeds far slower that the actual fight and the complexity of some movements against a knife is nearly impossible for the real world.Originally posted by BMW
when I went to observe some Sambo and Systema classes, I thought to my self that Brazilian Ju Jitsu is better because the Russian arts depend too much on the predictibility of the opponet. I could be wrong, but if someone can comment on that, it would be great.
Originally posted by Soshyopathe
Ask around about any basement karate clubs. They are usually the hardest core, and they don't teach a specific style, they teach it all. It's just a 'karate' school, and they're usually cheap.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.