"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Best happy birthday texts for hot girls in 2018?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheMonkeyKing

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Like any indirect communication, it should add value to your situation rather than take it away. Though not always, this will usually take the form of a call to action.

Nice guy creep will simply send a 'Happy Birthday' thinking it is getting them somewhere in the long run.

Keep it simple; 'Happy Birthday! When are you free to go out to celebrate?'.

You see the difference between passive and active.
 

zekko

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I thought you wished someone a happy birthday to make them feel good, not to get something out of it for yourself. That's what they call "giving value" as opposed to taking it.
 

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I'd call her and wish her a happy birthday; it will make you stand out from all the other people who are saying over the Internet. Do not sing happy birthday or leave her a voicemail doing so (I made this mistake and the girl's IL evaporated).
 
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