"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Best girl getting book?

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Sup everyone,

So I've heard of books like The Game by Niel Strauss, the Art of Seduction, and the professional bachelor guide, but I was wondering if you guys know any books that are up to date and a must read for me to become a DJ.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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COD

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Depends

2010 HAS BROUGHT US A TON OF REHASHED, REPACKAGED DVDS. CDS, BOOKS, ETC ON DATING..........MOST OF WHICH ARE variations on an old theme.

what type of dating, seducing do u desire or have interest in: online gaming, text flirting, speed dating, day game, bar/club tactics, cold appraoches, dating younger women, seducing a cougar, hi-school/college tactics.............the list goes on and on.

it begins with INNER GAME and stems from there............BOOKS I enjoyed

-DOUBLE YOUR DATING-DAVID D
-MYSTERY METHOD
-THE GAME
-MACK TACTICS
-INSIDERS NET DATING
-DAVAGINA CODE
-DJ BIBLE

TONS more.....but those are good reference manuals.

u might also try watching seasons 1 & 2 of the PICKUP ARTIST, or seasons 1-4 of the KEYS TO THE VIP.
 

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The game hasn't really changed much, and the most up to date books are usually the most rehashed ones. Why not read the djb and look up a couple of topics worth your interest using the search function on this forum? Some of the advice here are unpublished but nuggets of gold nonetheless.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Zarky

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I read R. Don Steele's "How to Date Young Women for Men Over 35" about 13 years ago and I still remember it. It's the first book that suggested you should always have 3 girlfriends. It's invaluable IMHO. Those and Ross Jeffries's original internet newsletters from 1994-1997.

Hardly new, but the original PU stuff is still the best IMHO.
 

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ChalengeGuyFan said:
No, no!
Time for you to start doing!
Nothing to say, OP action is the best thing you can do, learn it from error
nothing i or anyone can say will ever be better than trial and error.
 

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one problem many guys have (especially on this forum! ) is that they become "academic experts with women" without getting the real life experience needed...
so as the others have said you need to get the experience in as well

also you should look at your "Socail Game " there is a good section on theattractionforums as the better your socail skills are the better your life in MANY ways will be (especailly with women)

http://www.theattractionforums.com/social-circle-game/

you should also buy "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by dale carnegie - this will give you an insight to be popular - the book only costs a few $$
http://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Win-Friends-Influence-People/dp/0091906814/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1272222578&sr=8-1-spell
 
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