Best friends little sister came onto me

[smashingpumpkins]

Hey guys. Got another little field report to share with you guys. I don't know if you saw my first post, about getting rejected by a girl when I made my move, but this night was a little interesting.

I went over to one of my best friends house, and we decided to just start drinking. His little sister is there, and she has some friends over. I'm not attracted to any of her friends, except one of them was cute, but that was about it. So we're all drinking, and I have no intention of gaming any of these girls, especially my friends little sister, that is would be like a death sentence. So I'm just having a good time, I'm being funny, I have everybody laughing, and we're all just having a great time, until my friends sister starts coming onto me. And I know how my friend feels about his sister with guys. She has never really had a relationship because he would ruin them all by threatening the guy who she was talking to. And we've had some deep conversations about how much he cares about her, and wants the best for her, and all this other stuff.

So, his little sister keeps isolating me from everybody, and grabbing my hand and rubbing my fingers, and I'm thinking this is a little weird. So later, everybody is in the family room watching a movie, and I'm on a laptop in the kitchen looking through some songs to play, and she is sitting next to me, and I don't know really what happened next. The next thing I know she kisses me, and I immediately pull back, and said "Don't". She then, unannouced again, made another attempt to kiss me, and I pulled back again. She then looked at me, and said either 2 of the following things. "I really want to kiss you" or "why won't you let me kiss you?" I explained to her that I couldn't because her brother was one of my better friends (this is the first night I've been around his sister). I then knew I had to get out of there, so I went to the family room, and sat down. Of course she followed me in the room, and started grabbing my hand. That was basically all that happened.

It was weird, and came out of the blue. I'm proud of myself for not giving into temptation, and make out with her or anything because I know the consequences would be bad. I leave for school on Sunday afternoon, but I do plan on telling my friend what happened, and hopefully understand. Still, I have to admit, it was a cool feeling having a girl beg to kiss you, a really cute girl at that, and just reject her. What do you guys think of this?

 

[WhatchaOnaDo]

I woulda tapped that.
You done ****ed up.

 

[Energizer]

Bro's before hoe's man! Well done, banging your mates younger sister just ain't acceptable, this ain't no Hardcore Pornz!

 

[Cry For Love]

You were funny and confident and she probably got attracted because of that. Yes good choice you made. Just out of interest though, what are the ages of you and your friend's sis

 

[rushing dude 123]

would of said it but energiser beat me to it lol....but yeh dude theres lot more girls out there half the population is women. So no need to b angry over one. Trust me u done great thing, u keep ur friend, u got his little sister who actually thinks highly of u and actually may put in good word for u. An AFC would of went for that, do u know why....because he had no other choice.

 

[DonJuanit0]

Y I mean, ok it was the good thing to do and I totally agree, but will you tell your friend? ok he is your best friend but his sister will kinda suffer if I got the whole view of it... Do you guys think it's the right thing to do and tell him what happened?

 

[eaglez1177]

would of said it but energiser beat me to it lol....but yeh dude theres lot more girls out there half the population is women. So no need to b angry over one. Trust me u done great thing, u keep ur friend, u got his little sister who actually thinks highly of u and actually may put in good word for u. An AFC would of went for that, do u know why....because he had no other choice.

Agreed. You made a good decision in what an AFC would normally go for.

 

[trv26]

I never really understood this. I couldn't care less who my sister ****s. She's an adult, she can make her own decisions. Don't get me wrong, if a guy raped or beat her or whatever I would go after him with a shotgun, but otherwise it's really none of my business.

Could guys like this possibly have incestuous tendencies, hence their extreme jealousy/over protectiveness?

If you don't care about who your sister dates, then honestly you're the one that has something wrong. I know a blanket ban on dating is rather harsh, but still it depends on cultures, religion etc.

 

[Lust]

Hey guys. Got another little field report to share with you guys. I don't know if you saw my first post, about getting rejected by a girl when I made my move, but this night was a little interesting.

I went over to one of my best friends house, and we decided to just start drinking. His little sister is there, and she has some friends over. I'm not attracted to any of her friends, except one of them was cute, but that was about it. So we're all drinking, and I have no intention of gaming any of these girls, especially my friends little sister, that is would be like a death sentence. So I'm just having a good time, I'm being funny, I have everybody laughing, and we're all just having a great time, until my friends sister starts coming onto me. And I know how my friend feels about his sister with guys. She has never really had a relationship because he would ruin them all by threatening the guy who she was talking to. And we've had some deep conversations about how much he cares about her, and wants the best for her, and all this other stuff.

So, his little sister keeps isolating me from everybody, and grabbing my hand and rubbing my fingers, and I'm thinking this is a little weird. So later, everybody is in the family room watching a movie, and I'm on a laptop in the kitchen looking through some songs to play, and she is sitting next to me, and I don't know really what happened next. The next thing I know she kisses me, and I immediately pull back, and said "Don't". She then, unannouced again, made another attempt to kiss me, and I pulled back again. She then looked at me, and said either 2 of the following things. "I really want to kiss you" or "why won't you let me kiss you?" I explained to her that I couldn't because her brother was one of my better friends (this is the first night I've been around his sister). I then knew I had to get out of there, so I went to the family room, and sat down. Of course she followed me in the room, and started grabbing my hand. That was basically all that happened.

It was weird, and came out of the blue. I'm proud of myself for not giving into temptation, and make out with her or anything because I know the consequences would be bad. I leave for school on Sunday afternoon, but I do plan on telling my friend what happened, and hopefully understand. Still, I have to admit, it was a cool feeling having a girl beg to kiss you, a really cute girl at that, and just reject her. What do you guys think of this?

Smart move, your best mates friendship is worth a lot more than a quick bang.

 

[horaholic]

Tell your friend about it. He cant be mad at either of you. He just might give you a green light.

 

[smashingpumpkins]

Thanks guys, it feels good to know that you all agreed with my decision. She sent me a message on facebook the other day saying that she was sorry about it. And as for the age part, I'm 19, and she is 17.

Thanks again guys.

 

[traffic]

You're going to regret fvcking her for the rest of your life.

 

[OrangeCrusader]

You're going to regret fvcking her for the rest of your life.

Er, did you read any of the thread?

Kudos man, made the right move where a lot of guys wouldn't. Props.