Best friend's gf think I'm a threat

[The Bat]

Not sure if this has been discussed here before but thought I'd post this and hear everyone's experience with this kind of stuff.

Basically, my best friend of 10+ years has been dating this girl for 5+ years. We all met around the same time. I've been single for a long time and my idea of a hang out with my friend is to go out, eat, drink, and mingle with (new) people. My friend obviously doesn't mind this because he is always down for an outing.

She doesn't come out with us for whatever reason. Rarely does she do girls' night out things with her gfs as far as I know.

Comments I hear from her when we are out are targeted to indirectly discredit or downplay me being single and being successful with women. You know, the garden variety type stuff like, "You hooked up with a girl? Wow, did she weigh less than you?"....first couple of times, I wrote it off as a ball-busting thing. But over time, the comments started getting more vague to the point that you'd think that she thinks I'm such a douche that she wouldn't trust me with a dollar bill.

I'm thinking this is her way of making me look like "not a good guy" to be friends with to her bf (my friend). That way, he starts spending less and less time with me until she is all he has left to spend time with.

Am I correct in my assessment? If so, how to handle this?

What have your guys' experiences been with stuff like this?

 

[Jitterbug]

Am I correct in my assessment? If so, how to handle this?

You are correct. I'd go with "Agree & Amplify" with a few well-timed back turns / ignore / conversation flow changes. Irritate them enough so they end up saying something really stupid.

What have your guys' experiences been with stuff like this?

Two exes of my mates commented, on the record, that I am a bad influence on their boyfriends. I always agreed with their assessment in good humour, in contrast with their mean spirit, and kept doing my things. Result: they are now exes.

One of my mates is now with this chick who's terrible and a master manipulator, and I haven't worked out how to fvck her up yet though... What I'm banking on is to get him fit and in good shape again, because she's an ugly chubby b1tch, so it'll piss her off and remind him that he can do way better.

I'm certainly a very bad influence on guys who are in terrible to mediocre relationships!

 

[Burroughs]

Women accuse others of WHAT THEY ARE GUILTY OF! They're MASTERS at it...once of the few things they are master of actually. So when they keep accusing YOU of it... it's because they resent the kind of freedom you have and the power and authority you show over women a power and authority she DOES NOT want her man to wield over her.

Women are almost BORN accusing men of what they're guilty of. It's known as projection and they do it SO automatically, SO without thought, like almost everything, they never see it.