"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Best friend's gf drunk txts "i think i like you"... proper course of action?

Cinamon

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You know this happened to me once, my friends bf came on to me, and when i told her, it backfired completely and although she knew he was the one that came on to me, she cut her ties with me rather than him.
In your situation I would leave things and if she doesnt try it on again, i wouldnt mention it, but if she does try it on again, you need to tell your friend.... and your gf.
Do you reckon this is something ur gf could have put her up to, to test you?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dicod3r

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Save yourself the drama and ignore it and her.... ur boy probably already knows his relationship is in the crapper, doesn't need ur opinion about it


Happened to me once, same situation, my best friends girl said she wanted to screw me while her best friend was my gf! My boy was cool and let me bang her and then we headed for the hills on these chicks, bro's before ho's man. Only difference these girls were not part of a permaneant social circle..

DONT **** WHERE U SLEEP.... man that has helped me in so many different ways, keep your love life and friendships separate, so when one takes a hit has NO effect on the other... same thing applies to work relationships, learn how to separate key aspects of your life, keep it moving !
 

Just a Shot Away

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WaterTiger said:
Delete the text...
Why? So his friend's gf can get all pissy about getting rejected, tell her bf that his friend tried to come on to her, and lose a friend and maybe even your own gf once she finds out...all because you have no proof of what actually happened?

Not a bright move, imo. I'd definitely at least keep the text as an insurance policy.

Also to the OP, have you considered that your friend or his gf might just be messing with you to see how you'll react? I had a friend of mine tell his gf to offer me sex to see what I'd say once, and I turned her down for several reasons....but if I hadn't it wouldn't have ended well. It could just be a trap designed to test the strength of your friendship or a childish prank. Just something to consider.
 

King Turi

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Nah, tell him.

Seriously, I've had this happen and no joke, the way I broke it to my mate was "dude, tell your girl to quit hitting on me", in a dead serious tone.

He tried blowing it off as if I was just making it up and wanting her to hit on me, etc, trying to be funny or what not, but either way, she quit hitting on me.
So I guess he knew I wasn't joking.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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