"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Best fitting jeans for men?

Teej

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What do you guys like for jeans as far as really good fit? I find most of the common brands aren't very well fitting. I like them fairly tight but not stupid tight, just don't like the loose no-ass look. Opinions?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Gap jeans, standard fit. Were on sale for 20 bucks, are now back to the 50 range. But well worth it. Perfect on waist, room on legs but not baggy.
 

prairiedog24

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I finally discovered my perfect pair of jeans. Levi's 514's. Not always cheap, but occasionally I find them on sale for $25 and buy them up.
 

DohnShaft

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You want good jeans with a good fit you have to spend some loot. Higher priced jeans may seem outrageous, but they always fit/look better. If you think about it $100 bucks on a pair of jeans may seem like a lot but I have pairs that I still wear years later. Buffalo is a great brand, Sevens (mad loot though). The best way to get a great pair cheaply is to go to your local mall and check out the sale racks in Macy's, Lord and Laylor, Nordstroms, ect. Also, if you find a pair or style you dig check our ebay too...gotta love the boosters. "A booster is a person who jacks from the retail And sells it in the hood for dirt-cheap resale" At these higher end stores they always have cool pairs on sale. Find a brand that fit well and stick with it. A good pair of jeans is hard to find, but the longer you have them the better they look.
 

TheBucketOfTruth

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Different people have different body types/shapes, so what brand may look great on one person may not work at all on another. Just go out to a bunch of different stores (or a department store with many brands) and figure out what works best for you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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speakeasy

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My favorites right now when considering quality, fit and style but still reasonable price are the Banana Republic jeans. I prefer boot-cut low-rise jeans. I think most stylish jeans sold now are going to be low-rise and meant to be worn a few inches below the hip. And like you, I don't want them baggy, but certainly not the "skinny jeans" look either.
 

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Diesel usually works for me.

You can probably find some great deals on ebay at the moment.
 
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