Best first date for online girl?

[KillingTime]

Been talking to this girl online, we have seen each other in person briefly but no more than a "hi" so it's like we are meeting for the first time. We've been getting it off incrediblty well online, and i don't want to mess that up. one thing: I do know she is VERY VERY shy and this is incredibly hard for her to do so I want to make her as comfortable as possible. I don't want her to be so nervous the entire time that she ends up associating that with me, gotta get her relaxed. So where's a good place to go?

i had three in mind:

1. bowling... never bowled in my life though
2. There's this place called D&B, it's a restaurant and they have all kinds of games (arcade and more hi-tech stuff)... im not too into games but it could be fun and take the stress out for her.
3. Riverwalk: this is the main attraction here in San Antonio. It's basically a river that goes through downtown and there are restaurants, clubs, and all sorts of things along it. It's really nice at night but we are both under age so we might not get into some restaurants but we could walk around, enjoy the scenery and ride the boats. It could be fun.

Which sounds best? She isn't your usual party-animal and really shy (yes, first generation Asian just to feed the stereotype) but online we do flirt quite a bit, what else can I do to put her at ease?

 

[KillingTime]

bump

 

[splinterkb]

The tunnel of disappointment, where you both will find out that the person is completely different in real life. Goodbye.

 

[jasonrivera]

Originally posted by KillingTime


She isn't your usual party-animal and really shy (yes, first generation Asian just to feed the stereotype) but online we do flirt quite a bit, what else can I do to put her at ease?

I've never heard that stereotype before, but whatever. I think, if shes REALLY shy, the bowling idea might not work. She could be so shy that she will refuse to get up and bowl, although since it's ur first time, u might just make a fool outta urself (in a good, funny way) and put her at ease. Dave & Busters sounds decent, if she's into games at all. My vote goes towards the Riverwalk. Maybe check out a comedy club...those are always fun.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Slow your roll a bit and keep it simple like a coffee date. Get to know what she's about IRL (in real life) first and then make your decisions from there.

First decide whether or not she is someone you would want to go out with for an date of a few hours or more. THEN decide something more substantial to do based on your combined interests you had learned about during your coffee date.

 

[DJ_Dork]

Save those three things for REAL dates. the first meetup is just "testing the waters"


Do something where the both of you can talk..whether it be at a bar/cafe.

Have 2 backup plans:

1. If she's not digging/trusting you... cut the date, remember to leave her an email.. and maybe a couple saying you had a good time, blah blah blah. Maybe she was shy or what not. If she likes you she will suggest another date.

2. If she's digging you, get ready to do something simple like video games/pool , end date. follow up with a phone call and blah blah blah.