"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Best ethnicity of women?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I am currently dating an asian women, Vietnamese one. She is straight from Vietnam, came to the US about 3-4 years ago. She is honest, smart, caring, cooks, cleans, all of the stuff. But for my preference looks wise it would be an Italian looking woman I prefer the most(I am of italian decent myself)
 

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Because 15 to 20 years ago there was no feminism in Brazil and girls were hotter...that said, if I was to do it again, I would choose a poor chick from the favelas who works in Habibs. Best cuisine hands down and I've been all around the world.

Would LOVE to have a bowl of feijoada, a side of yakisoba and some baby beef. Holy **** that food is better than sex.

The only thing our women can make are corn dogs and salad.
You've been here before? Feijoada is the best, and next time you're here, you should taste what churrasco is like.

Beef and beer all the way.

BTW Brazil reflects what goes major in the 1st world with a delay of 5-10yrs, so, feminism is on the rise here.
 

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You've been here before? Feijoada is the best, and next time you're here, you should taste what churrasco is like.

Beef and beer all the way.

BTW Brazil reflects what goes major in the 1st world with a delay of 5-10yrs, so, feminism is on the rise here.
Brazilian women haven't been "ruined" yet? I heard the women there were feminine, proud of it, and they encourage and give value to masculinity in their men. They are said to be good partners, love taking care of their man and take pride in their bedroom skills.
 

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You've been here before? Feijoada is the best, and next time you're here, you should taste what churrasco is like.

Beef and beer all the way.

BTW Brazil reflects what goes major in the 1st world with a delay of 5-10yrs, so, feminism is on the rise here.
I used to live in Sao Paolo in another life, I worked at a place called Wizard [is that still around?]. I've had every food you guys make, used to eat a Beirute with a Vitamina every fkin day and hamburgers quite a bit. I was there when the gangs were shooting up the police boxes [around 2004/6], it was a crazy time, used to hear machine guns going on outside my window [I lived near Paulista]. I think a year or two before someone from a favela shot a helicopter down or something and the death squads were running through the favela bullseyeing people for $50 extra. I'm guessing its changed a bit since then.



Brazilian women haven't been "ruined" yet? I heard the women there were feminine, proud of it, and they encourage and give value to masculinity in their men. They are said to be good partners, love taking care of their man and take pride in their bedroom skills.
Nah thats all gone dude. They're feminist LGBT worshippers now.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Brazilian women haven't been "ruined" yet? I heard the women there were feminine, proud of it, and they encourage and give value to masculinity in their men. They are said to be good partners, love taking care of their man and take pride in their bedroom skills.
Our women aren't at the american standard of women yet. But as i've stated, everything that happens in the US, be it technologies or social movements usually comes here aswell with some time gap.
 

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Did you know Nintendo was banned there?


They used to have all the copied games down on Paulista. I had all the newest games as soon as they came out.
 

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I dunno how SJW this forum is, so I'll risk saying something controversial.

People tend to like their own race. If you exclusively target races outside of your own then you have a fetish. Nothing wrong with it, but it just means you're a naughty deviant sexpat. This applies to women too.
I dunno if thats true for white people, alot of us contracted yellow fever at an early age.

 

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I used to live in Sao Paolo in another life, I worked at a place called Wizard [is that still around?]. I've had every food you guys make, used to eat a Beirute with a Vitamina every fkin day and hamburgers quite a bit. I was there when the gangs were shooting up the police boxes [around 2004/6], it was a crazy time, used to hear machine guns going on outside my window [I lived near Paulista]. I think a year or two before someone from a favela shot a helicopter down or something and the death squads were running through the favela bullseyeing people for $50 extra. I'm guessing its changed a bit since then.
Amazing, i live in a small town in countryside São Paulo, pretty conservative place. Wizard is still around. The time you mentioned were on the rise of a criminal gang here in the state, but ever since there was no major issues like that. Rio de Janeiro is the worst city possible when it comes to crime, and Rio is not the best beach in Brazil by far, don't know why gringos love Hell de Janeiro that much.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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