"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Best east coast cities for men?

Urbanyst

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Want to dive a little deeper into the best cities on the east coast for men. We already know about NYC. What about the others? How do they stack up in your opinion?

*Boston
*Philly
*Baltimore
*Washington DC
*Richmond
*Charlotte
*Atlanta
*Miami

Rate these cities for HOT women, types of women and overall quality of the women.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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At first I was thinking, wtf where is new york but I just saw your post up at the top. Anyways here is my take..

If you're looking for a place to get somewhat consistent sex as a single man with good looking interesting women, then no east coast city is better than New York. Yeah you will get a lot of sex in the city wannabes who tease you but a surprising amount of the pretty woman are down to earth. It also helps that there are way more single woman so they can't afford to be as picky.

Atlanta and Charlotte are good but often times the big bar scenes revolve around people hanging with their college friends so social circle is more crucial in the south. If you are a fratty type you can do well in these cities.

As for Miami, if you're willing to drop tons of cash or are rich, its great but if not you won't have much luck there. Girls are super hot but can be major gold diggers and status hoes.

I cannot speak for boston or philly but the dc baltimore area is simply not good. Many of the girls are too focused on their careers to the point where taking care of appearances comes as a second priority if any at all. The result of this is a dating scene where any girl who isn't fat and doesn't dress terribly will have a huge sense of entitlement and over inflated ego. If my biggest concern in life was banging random girls I wouldn't touch DC with a 10 foot pole.
 

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So you find DC and Baltimore to be pretty much the same?

I remember Baltimore having hotter white women then DC. But, DC had hotter everything else. I remember Philly women being generally ugly, rough looking and forgettable. Can't think of a single time I went to Philly and saw a woman that made me want to look twice.
 

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1. NYC
2. Miami
3. the rest of them
 

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So you find DC and Baltimore to be pretty much the same?

I remember Baltimore having hotter white women then DC. But, DC had hotter everything else. I remember Philly women being generally ugly, rough looking and forgettable. Can't think of a single time I went to Philly and saw a woman that made me want to look twice.
I think that baltimore has the slight edge due to the fact that people are less pretentious. TBH I didn't notice a huge difference in quality among the DC vs baltimore girls. I can say this though. If you are open to moving west, san diego has amazing women.

The downside is you have to live in california
 

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1. NYC
2. Miami
3. the rest of them
I agree that miami girls are super attractive, but you have to be willing to drop money. In almost any other city you can go to a cheap dive bar get 5 dollar beers and pull.

Good luck doing that in a place like southbeach. If you are a generally cheap guy or don't have 500 dollars for a weekends worth of hotels booze ubers food etc then ur better off elsewhere
 

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As for Miami, if you're willing to drop tons of cash or are rich, its great but if not you won't have much luck there. Girls are super hot but can be major gold diggers and status hoes.
I heard from my friend who used to live in florida that the girls are all about abs down there, the sunny weather perhaps increases the importance of looks/physique
 

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Hoboken? :D

DC is the worst, absolute rat race of misandrist average looking women. I approached DC chicks by accident on the West Coast and remembered how little I'm missing.

From that list, Philly is probably best. The central Pennsylvanian transplants there are nice and the women over all are very hot in the right places.

Baltimore women are ignorant, you really need to know how to talk to them. It's almost like a LA/SF style culture shock to go from DC to Baltimore.
The white women in DC are awful. However, there are decent foreign and minority women.

I'll have to re-visit Philly. Don't remember seeing anything impressive the four times I went. Baltimore women are definitely ignorant and not very cosmopolitan or intelligent on average. But the college girls there are HOT. They're usually from other parts of the country though. No surprise lol.
 

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Women in Philly and DC are ugly.

Boston? Some cute ones

Miami? Full of bangers but they are gold digging wh0res

I think Orlando is an amazing place where women will eye fvck you everywhere and won’t make you drop $1000 on them on the first date
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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