"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BEST drinks to order @ Bar!!!(READ+POST=FUN)

When you go out you spend?

  • $0-10

    Votes: 4 15.4%

  • $15-30

    Votes: 13 50.0%

  • $30-45

    Votes: 6 23.1%

  • $50+

    Votes: 3 11.5%
  • Total voters
    26
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So Many Ways

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Lately I've been drinking a lot of grey goose and tonic. I'll also order a glass of Hennesey, either a shot or on the rocks. In most establishments in Southern California, most drinks will cost you anywhere from $6 to $9, not including tip, so it's easy to go over $50.

This sounds cheap, but what I do is simply buy some alcohol (usually beer) at a supermarket beforehand, stuff some into my pockets, go to the bar/club, then whip it out when nobody is looking. The bar serves the EXACT same drinks, same bottle, so no one is wiser.

Then when I finish my own drinks, I'll buy from the bar.
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I used to do something similar back in the day. I would hit up a liquor store and buy 3 of those small bottles of goldschlager and down them in the car before going in the club. I also used to buy 40's and down them in the back seat of the car before going in. One time my friends and I got caught by the cops while drinking in the car, finishing off a 12 pack of corona. Now I'm a little more hesitant to do that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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