"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BEST drinks to order @ Bar!!!(READ+POST=FUN)

When you go out you spend?

  • $0-10

    Votes: 4 15.4%
  • $15-30

    Votes: 13 50.0%
  • $30-45

    Votes: 6 23.1%
  • $50+

    Votes: 3 11.5%

  • Total voters
    26

So Many Ways

Master Don Juan
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Lately I've been drinking a lot of grey goose and tonic. I'll also order a glass of Hennesey, either a shot or on the rocks. In most establishments in Southern California, most drinks will cost you anywhere from $6 to $9, not including tip, so it's easy to go over $50.

This sounds cheap, but what I do is simply buy some alcohol (usually beer) at a supermarket beforehand, stuff some into my pockets, go to the bar/club, then whip it out when nobody is looking. The bar serves the EXACT same drinks, same bottle, so no one is wiser.

Then when I finish my own drinks, I'll buy from the bar.
I used to do something similar back in the day. I would hit up a liquor store and buy 3 of those small bottles of goldschlager and down them in the car before going in the club. I also used to buy 40's and down them in the back seat of the car before going in. One time my friends and I got caught by the cops while drinking in the car, finishing off a 12 pack of corona. Now I'm a little more hesitant to do that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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