"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Best day date to stimulate physical contact?

gimmeyofonenumba

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got a number from this chick at the club. Told her we'd get together tommorow afternoon. Problem is ill be moving in a week, and have like 2 more free days. I wanna get on her quick, heck tommorow might be the only available time for me before i leave. Should I tell her that im moving? we had a quick kiss on the lips at the club so obviously sex is on her mind. I just gotta find a way to present an oppurtunity. I wanna lay her on the first date, but its an afternoon date. Advice guys?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nighthawk

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Play pool. You can get kino, tease her, whip her ass, then take her ass home, Used to work for me. Make sure alcohol is involved.
 

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Pick a park and a bookstore if she is the intellectual kind of girl. It works like magic for me. The girls usually invites me back to her place. (I use the vocabulary, literature, appealing to her mind - angle). It works super fine for day game.

For women in general, for day game (this is ancient knowledge in the community apparently): Choose the date spot close to your apartment, and ask her to meet you outside your apartment. You'd conveniently be in the middle of wearing your socks or pressing your shirt, or boiling your tea, so you'd invite her in for a quick second while you get ready. Do nothing sexual there. She should feel totally safe being around you in your house. This will lower her guard when you ask her to step in for a sec into your room (to look at some interesting prop) at the end of the date. Of course, she usually will, and she usually will be impressed by your suave and put out (no kidding. Girls know this and play along).

Too much kino in day time in public is not the brightest idea on a first date... she'd have her anti-slut defence flaring.

Brain wave!

Try an art museum!!! Or anything else you can think of that involves you two being in close proximity.

sorry, I'm off to see Superbad. will come back and finish this. Hope this much helped.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Play tag or football. May sound childish but, it is a ACTION date. Women like guys who are still big kids. Just not immature!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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